Nothing changes, if we don't change...

I confess that one of the purposes in life is NOT to rescue those who choose to sink, but to save myself without excuses and with determination.

The truth is that I could not save someone who does not want to be saved, I try as much as possible not to throw my effort in vain.

The fundamental thing will always be to achieve the necessary change in ourselves that leads us to grow, to look for help in ourselves to achieve that transformation that, without a doubt, is something that we can control and will drive us to be the best version of ourselves.

Now, everything changes, when one changes one's perspective of seeing the case and turns it into an opportunity, if we stay living in the complaint and in the black spot, unfortunately the complaint, the guilt, the bad decisions take their toll and it is not punishment from God, nor from the Universe nor from the greatest religious or cultural belief in life, that's everyone's bullshit to think that, you have to take responsibility for life to be functional humans.

In the worst case scenario I can decide to change and even achieve it!. I knew a family where the mom tried very hard, but the lady complained about everything she had to do and justified her mess, of her two children one was just as whiny and messy as the mother.

The other son, he kept his room, books, and shoes immaculate and in order. He seemed to be in another world.

One day he said to me: I don't want to waste my time doing nothing, and then complain like my mom and my brother do. This orderly boy learned to see beyond his surroundings and that seems excellent to me.

One must change to be intelligent and emotionally to accept and discard some things, above all it is necessary to change what we think.

Here is the transformation. Thinking and vice versa depends on life prospects. It's a process, an evolution within oneself, in control of oneself, and let me tell you, "It's the best decision."
In beautiful words, it was my turn to "learn to dance in the rain" because the best motivation does not come only from the good or pleasant things that happen to us.

I learn from the difficult and unexpected situations that happen to me to use them in my favor, so I continuously develop an attitude of resilience that leads me to move forward, demonstrating my personality structure, strength and character

Sometimes I think... Give the.first step, will it be easy? Maybe yes, but I'm sure letting go of control will give us peace in our lives. And it will be the beginning of a better passage through this world. We will learn to give more of ourselves without thinking too much.

And by being grateful for every little detail we will learn to live in the abundance of gratitude. With mental and physical health we are independent in the pursuit of our happiness. This day I gave me this nice walk through the botanical garden, in my city.

Janitze 🌹