The right words, for the right times...

Fear is not combated... It is integrated, respected, even listened to but not blindly obeyed.

It keeps happening to me, I start hoping that fear will pass me by, especially when I don't know what to do with this primary, basic emotion that is born with each of us and that is part of our defense system.

This is the fear that makes us not to enter a dark street or not to touch something hot because you get burned. But this fear also holds us back when we have to make an important decision.

In my day to day I live it and I see it again and again in people trying to have the total courage to act as if that were easy.

I have to say, many times that waiting is an emotional trap. Knowing that being afraid is necessarily because everything is wrong. Why? Because many times, it is the sign that we are in the right place about to change something important to be better and important.

So it is very important to be clear about our purpose and keep in mind that fear will always accompany us, but be very careful so that our life does not manage us because one with everything and fear always knows where he is going.

Choose your path with everything and fear, to advance, to prosper, because everything good begins with fear, because always being there as that emotion that always alerts us to the new and even the good, fear walks beside us. It's time to learn to walk like this, to move forward and go for what we need to be happy, with everything and fear, if possible. There is no other choice. But never let fear decide for you.

Although sometimes it happens to me, that fear has tried to dominate by making me feel that it surpasses me and the emotion of uncertainty that I feel in my soul is horrible.

Without a doubt, fear protects us, but if we don't channel it right when we see signs that it lasts a long time, it becomes a sabotaging emotion that if it stays for a long time makes us sick.

When we have a difficult situation we first start with fear, then we overcome it and in the end it leaves, and walks forward. This is a mandate of Self-love. And if it surpasses us we can seek professional help with therapy, I do it when it surpasses me.

I think this is the most sensible attitude, because, fear always accompanies me, but I don't let it decide for me, with a lot of courage and with knees shaking many times, I put it aside, I carry it with me, but It didn't let me be intimidated and I choose with a clear purpose, my path.

Janitze.🌷