Being a man usually means you can hardly make excuses, protection and provision is usually required of you and if you can't deliver for whatever reason you almost always seem like you have no use and should be avoided.
This is not the same thing when it comes to women. When a woman cannot provide, what in the hell? A staggering majority of people weren't even expecting her to provide in the first place. If she can't protect? Wtf? Don't be silly.
The only things expected of women are usually cooking and housekeeping, things that you can't compare to provision and protection by any stretch. And you cannot want to do housekeeping and cooking and not be able to do it, but you can want to protect and provide but be unable to.
(All these is just to show you the consequences of what is expected of a man. It doesn't mean women are only good for housekeeping/cooking, it just means protection and provision is usually not what is expected of a woman. Emphasis on "usually".)
That's why there is a lot of truth to this quote above. You should be on your own and avoid having women and children until you have yourself sorted out, or else you'll just find yourself unable to deliver so frequently that your women and children would consider you useless. And you don't want to get the treatment given to men considered useless.
There's a twist, though, if you avoid women waiting till you get yourself sorted out you'd most likely find yourself masturbating and consuming porn, and this would kill your drive/motivation/energy to some extent, and can even cause you sexual problems.
When your motivation/drive/energy is depleted how would you ever work hard enough to sort yourself out? You'd have to be very lucky/talented. Or it might just take way longer to sort yourself out.
Crazy, isn't it?
It's all just a dilemma. Do you keep women around even when you're not sorted and keep falling short and getting the embarrassment that comes with that, or do you avoid them and focus on yourself with the higher chances of falling victim to porn and masturbation which would damage your chances or making it because it would reduce your drive and motivation?
My advice would be that you have to be in the middle.
You have to have women in your life but don't take up responsibility yet. Have only casual relationships, if you can, but if you can't and you get something serious you should make sure you don't get a child. You should also let her know what you can and cannot do until you're done with what you're working on (which means you have to be working on something).
It is that simple, if you ask me.
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