When you are clear about what you really want, nothing can´t avoid you to get it
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Hello to all those who make community here. I must confess that for a long time I have been flirting with the topics and initiatives that you promote, but I could not find a way to participate without being repetitive, so I only read the posts of my friend @valrodriguez and commented on her contributions.
But today I decided, especially because given many changes that I am going through in a radical way, I have seen daily that if you ask, it really is granted.
I am not a woman without faith, quite the contrary, just being so impatient, in many cases, asking was hard for me, because I did not take into account the waiting time to obtain.
And beyond the phrase that says that "God's timing is perfect", everything comes into your life when you are really ready to receive it, otherwise, it would be a real waste of time for the universe and even for the one who is asking for it, who by not knowing how to take advantage of it, will end up frustrated.
And the fact is that life gives us so many signs, that we must learn to read them calmly, because it goes beyond the ABC that we emphasize in school. Everything leads you to what you want, but also to what you need, at the right time.
Learning to ask
It is not, nor will it be the same to ask for an ice cream as to ask for something to materialize in your life. I remember the case of a cousin, who asked for a Prince Charming style boyfriend. She described him in detail, even including the horse. But she refused to leave her peasant village and even her home.
When you ask for it, it will hardly come to your door like a delivery!
In the cousin's case she was doing the exercise half-heartedly. Asking with details is important, because it already indicates that you have visualized what you want to get, but life (the universe, or whatever you want to call it) tells you where you are going to "withdraw" your request, and by not going out when the opportunities were given to her, she was also denying herself the possibility of finding what she wanted.
In my case, something similar happened, since I was asking but not being aware of the process and the signals that led me to it. An example was asking for a job online, with the purpose of being able to be at home more, with my children, but by not placing applications or exploring the web, how was I supposed to get hired?
The same thing happened with the partner I wanted. I didn't give importance to his physical appearance, and asking for him not to be fat and ugly was enough (ha, ha) but neither to other things, which I now know are important.
The more detailed the request, the more guarantee you have of receiving what you want. It is an exercise of mental discipline, which will not only serve to ask, but also to decree and organize yourself in everything you do.
How to ask?
In principle, define what you want. And as if it were a moldable mass, give it shape, color, texture, thoughts (even if it is just one thing!), smells, tastes and everything you consider to be a contribution to what you want to arrive.
An anecdote was my continuous thought, between seriousness and joke, of "a rich husband to support me". I repeated it endlessly in the midst of crises or in casual conversation.
Did they give it to me? Not really. They sent me something that was not even remotely close to what I really longed for! I never said rich in what! Nor did I specify what I meant by being supported.
Whoever came along was rich in debt had plenty, and I was supporting myself but on edge....
Now, because of that experience, and because life has taken me through a process of mental reconstruction, I have understood that the times that the things I have asked for have come to me, it is because I unconsciously made the request well.
After having your idea clear, make a list (mental or written) about the possibilities of getting what you want, placing an approximate time to get it: a trip in 6 months, a house in 3 years, with realistic times.
Drawing a plan and placing it in a visible way will help you to program your mind for it. So-called treasure maps work almost perfectly, as they help you keep the idea in mind every time you see them.
And finally fall in love with your desire, until you see it come true.
Hola a todos los que hacen comunidad por acá. He de confesar que desde hace mucho que me coquetean los temas e iniciativas que fomentan, pero no encontraba la manera de participar sin ser repetitiva, así que solo leía los post de mi amiga @valrodriguez y comentaba sus aportes.
Pero hoy me decidí, sobre todo porque dados muchos cambios por los que estoy pasando de manera radical, he visto a diario que si pides, realmente se te concede.
No soy una mujer sin fe, más bien todo lo contrario, solo que al ser tan impaciente, en muchos casos, el pedir se me hacía cuesta arriba, porque no tomaba en cuenta los tiempos de espera para obtener.
Y más allá de la frase que reza que "los tiempos de Dios son perfectos", cada cosa llega a tu vida, cuando realmente estás preparado para recibirlas, de lo contrario, sería una real pérdida de tiempo para el universo e incluso, para quien lo está pidiendo, quien por no saber aprovecharlo, terminará frustrado/a.
Y es que la vida nos da tantas señales, que hay que aprender a leerlas con calma, porque va más allá del ABC que nos recalcan en la escuela. Todo te va llevando a lo quieres, pero también a lo que necesitas, eso si, a su tiempo.
Aprender a pedir
No es, ni será lo mismo pedir un helado a buscar que algo se materialice en tu vida. Recuerdo el caso de una prima, que pedía un novio al estilo príncipe azul. Lo describía de una manera detallada hasta con el caballo incluido. Pero se negaba a salir de su pueblo de campesinos e inclusive de su casa.
Cuando se pide, difícilmente te llegará a la puerta como si fuera un delivery!
En el caso de la prima estaba haciendo el ejercicio a medias. Pedir con detalles es importante, porque ya indica que has visualizado lo que quieres obtener, pero la vida (el universo, o como lo quieras llamar) te va indicando a donde vas a "retirar" tu solicitud, y al no salir cuando las oportunidades se le daban, también se negaba la posibilidad de encontrar lo que quería.
En mi caso, pasaba algo similar, puesto que pedía pero sin estar consciente del proceso y de las señales que me llevaban a eso. Un ejemplo era pedir un empleo en línea, con la finalidad de poder estar más en casa, con mis hijos, pero al no colocar solicitudes o explorar en la web, cómo se supone que me contratarían?
Lo mismo pasaba con la pareja que quería. No le daba importancia a su aspecto físico, y con pedir que no fuera gordo y feo era suficiente (ja, ja) pero tampoco a otras cosas, que ahora sé que son importantes.
Mientras más detallado sea el pedido, mayor garantía tienes de recibir lo que deseas. Es un ejercicio de disciplina mental, que no solo servirá para pedir, sino también para decretar y organizarte en todo lo que hagas.
Cómo pedir?
En principio, define lo que quieres. Y como si fuera una masa moldeable dale forma, color, textura, pensamientos (así sea una cosa!), olores, sabores y todo lo que consideres sea un aporte a lo que deseas que llegue.
Una anécdota era mi pensamiento continuo entre seriedad y broma, de "un marido rico que me mantuviera". Lo repetía sin cesar en medio de crisis o en conversaciones casuales.
Me lo dieron? No!, pero me mandaron algo que no se acercaba ni remotamente a lo que yo realmente anhelaba! Nunca dije rico en qué! tampoco especifiqué a qué me refería con que me mantuviera.
Quien llegó era rico en deudas tenía muchas, y me mantenía pero con los nervios de punta...
Ahora, debido a esa experiencia, y a que la vida me ha llevado a un proceso de reconstrucción mental, he entendido que las veces que me han llegado las cosas que he pedido, es porque de manera inconsciente hacía bien la solicitud.
Luego de tener tu idea clara, haz una lista (mental o escrita) sobre las posibilidades de llegar a tener lo que quieres, colocando un tiempo aproximado para conseguirlo: un viaje en 6 meses, una casa en 3 años, con tiempos realistas.
Trazar un plan y colocarlo de forma visible te ayudará a programar tu mente para ello. Los llamados mapas del tesoro funcionan casi de manera perfecta, pues te ayudan a mantener la idea en mente cada vez que los ves.
Y finalmente enamórate de tu deseo, hasta que lo veas hecho realidad.
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