Who defends you behind your back and not who is good to your face, who is really happy, and does not hurt anyone. Why? Because he knows what he wants and goes for it, conquers it and knows how to maintain it over time. He has focus and commitment to himself, to his projects and in his relationships with others.
People in survival sacrifice the loyalty of their hearts and do not look to the sides, they care nothing about your life and only look for themselves and take everything ahead at any cost.
On the other hand, those who are loyal show generosity and put it into practice, always looking for cordiality. He has empathy. Try to generate smiles and happiness and not annoyances or sadness in people. He values, respects and does not wear out by appearing an image to please or hook, he simply IS and that genuine way of being is the essence that is maintained over time and that sooner or later always comes to light.
Who is happy, knows what he wants and goes for it, without taking anyone ahead, or running over him, on the contrary he is adding, incorporating values into his life, he is bringing light, leaving an example and beautiful footprints in his ascent. To be smart is also to realize the value of those people, things or circumstances that come our way (usually once, or very rarely)
It requires great intelligence, smell, maturity and self-knowledge to distinguish them. Intelligence allows us to have a great capacity to understand, think and manage everything that happens to us independent of the field that generates it. It allows us to have the ability to solve problems of great difficulty in which a high level of logic is required.
In addition to analyzing and breaking down the challenges that are posed to us until we find the perfect solution to know what is valuable to us, and to know when those unique people or opportunities arrive and not to let them escape, for example as a good friend, a partner.
There are things that are just around the corner, others we can get by ourselves and other unique ones come alone as blessings, usually those that heaven gives us as a gift, the most special and in many cases we do not know how to see, distinguish or appreciate them.
No one said it would be easy, everything requires perseverance, work, dedication, selflessness and decision... With a capital letter! But when patience, discipline and intelligence accompany us, we understand that the effort is well worth it, when we want the sun of fullness and happiness to illuminate our soul every day.
My emotional intelligence always reminds me that my first option is not to suffer, that is why, being loyal to myself, I seek to feel loved, listened to, work as a team, be able to talk and establish agreements in order to live in harmony …
My reflections on human nature are influenced by my experiences over the years and what I expect from other people. I am living the golden years, getting older is like climbing a mountain: as you climb, your strength decreases, but your gaze is wider, freer and more serene.
Will there be time for everything to change?
I don't think I'll always have a lot of time ahead of me to do everything I dream of in my life. I do not waste time, because this one flies by, and there is only one step on this path. But without wasting time, because he does not return.
That feeling of having unique beings in my life who really love me, and their true affections are with me, feeling useful in many ways and learning to know what makes me truly happy without comparing or competing, is undoubtedly the greatest blessing. I am always being born to the new, special and different in my life.
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