If you want growth, you have to learn everyday and even unlearn some things you once learnt because as time goes on some things we once learnt to be true doesn't really go well with the current century. Part of what I have been learning is being patient, I have been learning that things don't go the way we plan it most times, I have always wanted my plans to work out quickly and I know that happens t many people but recently I'm learning to be patient with myself and trust the process, I have been learning to be calm and not frustrated when my plans didn't work out immediately.
Another thing I have been learning is to believe in myself, you see doubt is one thing I have always struggled with, I doubt myself alot if I can do this or if I can do that,I'm always telling myself I'm not good enough but recently I have been learning that I have to believe in myself first before people believe in me and that's will help my growth. I started to learn that everyone has their flaws but they come out being confident of what they know and now people see them as role models, with believi
ng in myself, my goals will be achieved in life.
Just like I have been learning new things, I have also be unlearning some things as well. Things I thought was the right way in life seems not to be and I have been unlearning them ,part of which is
"Not pleasing everyone " I have been someone that worry so much about how people see me,what they think about me but I'm realizing now that I can't satisfy everyone,no matter how good and perfect I choose to be , people will stop have something to say and instead of looking for people's happiness whilst I'm not really happy with myself and I'm always uncomfortable and stressed, I have been learning to set boundaries,do what is right for me though didn't stop me from respecting people. I have been happy with myself lately after this decision.
Alot more are what I have been learning and unlearning which has bright so much difference to my life and I have been loving it.
