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When I read this week hive student connect prompt "what changed you" what came to my mind right away is "people" yeh people change me, people you meet in life will definitely do some changes to you, sometimes we might not even notice it but with deep thought we would realize we aren't who we used to be. For me,I have become less friendly and supportive,I use to be very friendly to people, a stranger or a friend. I'm very comfortable with everyone regardless of your position, I don't look at your potential or your values before I move close to you, I just relate well with anyone around me, I like everywhere I am to be lively.
I thought that was how life is supposed to be, I thought we are supposed to be friends the moment we met but people made me realize later that it's not,I realized I have been labeled something else , people didn't see me as a kind, friendly person I believed I am but a thief that cling with everyone inorder to benefit from them, they labeled me "high service" someone who do too much so she can be praised.
When I realized, I started redrawing from people, I started going against my heart, you know what you are from within,it's always hard going against it but I determined to not go back to my old me. I started to show my new me to people who are even genuine and won't take my love for granted but the fear of them changing into someone else always flash through my mind and reminds me what I gone through in the past, so I stay cold, stay on my lane,see what they want me to see and don't ask further questions about someone,do 30 percent out of my 100 percent to help someone and I will say I have gotten peace of mind since then .
So, ye, people change me, years back ,I didn't know I will turn out this way but life always come as a surprise,the more we live, the more we unleash.