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vanessavi
life
10y
It’s all bullshit. So know what the world is. And then go and make use of it.
We can endeavour to restrict the electromagnetic influence on our children and keep the world out of them as much as possible. But we have to be careful that we don’t isolate them so much that when they
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psychology
10y
How To Deal With Worry
When you are worrying and cannot stop, your mind is mastering you. But no one worries continuously. Worry comes in waves. So when you are worried, sit as usual, take some deep breaths, go around the body
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love
10y
THE SECRET OF LOVE
Mind-consciousness begins in the basest substances of the creation - rocks, metals, etc. Instinct is simply mind’s desire to live in whichever form it occupies. It appears in the beginning as the law of
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funny
10y
Women Laughing Alone With Salad
Two years ago there was a meme that burned through the internet and then vanished. You might remember it. “Laughing Women Eating Salad” was exactly what it sounded like — people were collecting and comparing
vanessavi
life
10y
Phone calls - What once seemed a blessing is now a nuisance
Yesterday I found myself emailing to arrange a phone call with someone in a different country. I suggested a number of times that worked on my end — could they perhaps choose one or suggest their own times?
vanessavi
life
10y
Never Underestimate The Stubbornness Of Denial
In the film, American Beauty, the character Ricky Fitts, who, incidentally is an excellent role model for learning how to be with women, said something that really stuck with me: "Never underestimate
vanessavi
funny
10y
Special (Needs) Forces
N.E.E.T. (Japan's special forces) posing after a shopping spree.
vanessavi
travel
10y
Upgraded to Ryanair Business Class, Quite an Experience
It’s boarding time, and suddenly the room goes silent and everyone turns to look at me with hate in their bloodshot, booze-ravaged eyes. Huh? I then listen closely and it turns out they’re pre-boarding
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psychology
10y
Stuff Sick - Hoarders
I was thinking about The A&E TV show Hoarders. Wikipedia tells us, “At the time of its premiere, Hoarders was the most-watched series premiere in A&E network history among adults aged 18–49 and
vanessavi
dating
10y
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Improve your dating life by giving up judgmentalism
One of the very first things to relinquish on the Zen pathway of dating is criticalness or judgmentalism. One of the mind's favorite pastimes! As such, it isn't easy to let this one go. The mind gains
vanessavi
writing
10y
How to Become the Man Women Want
On an egoic-animal level, women are programmed to seek out men of high status. Although men are concerned with a woman's "looks" (and especially her hip-to-waist ratio), to a woman's ego and
vanessavi
love
10y
Real Love
You notice someone. You like this person. You persist in expressing your liking. You start to thinking about this person, all the time. You're giving your attention when this person isn't even around you.
vanessavi
life
10y
The Joys of Smoking
I quit smoking a while back, but eventually started again because I just simply missed it so damn much. People have been telling me for years it's evil to smoke, but in my heart I never truly believed
vanessavi
love
10y
Love without Fear
Live your life the way you want to and don’t care about what anybody else thinks of it. Love whoever triggers your love. Don’t promise anyone to love only her (or him). Don’t ever ask someone to love only
vanessavi
life
10y
Why do we suffer? Seeing through Death.
I'm changing my outlooks on pain and suffering. I try to see a desire for life. I will not dread death. A dear friend of mine passed away 2 weeks ago. It made me wonder, "Why do we all weep the same
vanessavi
love
10y
Being Nice Versus Being Kind When Dating
There is this common dilemma. At one level, a man learns to be "nice" to women, but as he matures, he realizes that it doesn't work very well at all. Women don't seem to want "nice guys",
vanessavi
love
10y
Crushing on girls
You meet an attractive woman, and sparks fly; Everything goes smoothly – She laughs at all your corny jokes, touches you while you’re talking, and makes you feel like a million bucks. Then, after wondering
vanessavi
spirituality
10y
Opening The Heart Chakra
Chakras are where energy flows in and out of you. There are seven Chakras on your body, and virtually all of your challenges come down to the fact that they are out of balance. Many of us are working hard
vanessavi
psychology
10y
Relationship Karma - Understanding how childhood issues may affect your relationships
It's called Karma, where we inadvertently seek out lovers to help us to resolve issues from our past. The good news is, once resolved, once the lessons are learned, we will no longer attract the same
vanessavi
spirituality
10y
What's the difference between repressing your emotions and not having "negative" emotions?
There are no negative emotions. We're talking about duality - good and bad; positive and negative. ... Pain and pleasure. The Ego has a very important job, in order to help you to SURVIVE. And one of the
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