I welcome you to my blog. Relationships and friendships offer us valuable lessons; with these lessons, we get to make amends and try to make our friendships and relationships work. For as long as we live, the people we surround ourselves with have a way of impacting our lives, whether negatively or positively, which makes surrounding yourself with the right people very important. Whether we like it or not, there is always a lesson attached with every single person that walks into our lives, whether a good lesson or a bad lesson. Whenever a person walks into our lives, we just have to brace for impact. It might take time to pass that message across, but just prepare your heart, mind, body, and soul for what is coming.
They say, for every person you meet, there is either a blessing or a lesson; some people impact you positively, and there are those who leave with scars and pains, but it is part of life. Not everyone who walks into your life is supposed to treat you right or be a blessing to you; some just come to teach you a lesson or probably lessons. Those lessons will teach you how to go about life; some of these lessons are good and will guide you through life, and that way you never get to experience certain things again.
There are people who teach you the lesson you need to win in life; one of those is family. They say charity begins at home; you start learning the lessons you need to win in life from home before friends and the people you meet outside add to what you must have learned from home. Home is the bedrock of everything, even the lessons we need to guide us through life. Family is supposed to give us more than half of the lessons, then we get extras from friends, community, and people we cross paths with.
I have been opportune to learn a lot of lessons from both family and friends, but I will be sharing just one that has seen me through a lot of troubles and did not let the trouble hit me down or escalate, and this important lesson I have learned is “The importance of communication.” Communication is vital for every friendship or relationship to work out; failure to communicate properly can be the end of good things, and that alone will bring regrets, and people who are supposed to be in your life are kicked out because you don't know how to communicate or communicate wrongly.
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I have seen how much good communication has kept my parents going, and I can boldly say that good communication promotes peace and harmony; no relationship or friendship is a perfect one, but when people involved communicate in depth with each other, there is nothing they cannot handle. Communication is key to a successful partnership, friendship, or relationship. With good communication, we would not make mountains out of mere hills; some things don't need us to react; all we need is communication, and I have learned this over time, and it has been helping and guiding me.
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