My response to the @Indiaunited Contest [Theme- : "Do People Care About You, or What You Can Do for Them?"

There are all types of people in the world so it's difficult to judge everyone in the same category. Yes, largely the world we live in today, we find selfish people or sometimes you can even say self-centered. But still, we cannot generalize it. I have come across both type of people in my life, the ones who genuinely care irrespective of me doing something for them or not and even those who walk in to my life till they need me and then disappear.

For those who do not care for me even after me doing things for them, I have no grudges on them, because I strongly believe that everyone in life comes for a reason and a season. No one is permanent except for a very few blood relations. Why waste your energy and emotions on those who do not mean much to you. Many times, people will show they care for you because you are of use to them. Once they get what they want and work is done, then you will see a different side of them.

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My rule of life is never going out of way to do anything for anyone unless that person is someone special for you. In this ccase,if they are coming into my life for a specific rreason, they will by themselves drift away. with God's grace I am blessed with plenty of such people in my life who genuinely care for me and not for what I do for them. Even if I have stopped doing it for tthem, they have not stopped caring for me. At the same ttime,I have also come across selfish and self-centered people, so it's like experiencing the sweet and sour part of life both. Caring is not always about what you can do for them; it is also about how you make other people feel. So even if you do not do anything for them and if you make them feel good, they will be by yourside.

I feel that the world is filled with more positive people then negative people, so in the end it's all about how you make each other feel.

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