When we did think thoroughly of what kind of stuff humans are made of, we will begin to see truly that there is nothing like genuine care or love from those we have crossed paths with, and maybe could not continue to have them by our side because of how they treated us afterwards. So I see genuine care as something we can’t naturally force, neither can we purchase it with fund. Simply, its something that have to come willingly.
As humans, we are born among others , and not just alone, because we need the support of others to keep living, which is why family is one big thing we can not do without, hence, its only family that can give us that genuine care we need and desires. Although, we have had instances where we were also disappointed by family, and this might be because of dispute or misunderstanding, which when resolved, things continue to flow- as the saying goes, “Blood Is Thicker Than Water”
But things have continued to change with time because of the times we are in now. It appears that people practically comes to you because of the help they wants to get from you. And not that you are not willing to help them in their circumstances, but the issue becomes different and difficult when you stopped helping due to how you also need to help yourself out with one problem or the other.
I have seen several cases where a friend stopped talking to a friend because the person was not able to help him or her out on a demand. This happens in cases where people just keep friends because they want you to keep helping them, and when you can’t meet up, they will take their leave because they don’t care for your well-being.
For me I do sincerely choose to care for those who I see that has something I have. I mean , I love to care for those who care for me, and not because of the help I will give to them nor the help I hope to receive from them because those who genuinely care for others are meant to always stay together. And not that they will not help other people that comes their way. They will only do that because they decided to help.
And I think the issue with this situation of people always wanting help is because of how the world 🌎 is today. Things are becoming too tough, where many can not even feed properly. This situation keeps driving people to look for those that will help them through showing care initially, but once they don’t get to receive help, they will take their leave while looking for someone else.
In another understanding, there is so much pressure in the world right now and this has caused many people to constantly look for who will always be by their side since they lack the energy to always console themselves. And since everyone is running their own race, and many might not have the time to look out for others at all time, so many will misunderstand this fact of how things really is.
So the best to life is to try and keep your own energy that will help you keep going against all odds. This is why we must always try our best to maintain a good relationship with family, because family will always be there for us. So with your personal energy, your family and those who genuinely care for you, you don’t need extras since the world 🌎 is in so much distress.
However, despite how things are right now with life, struggles and distress, there are still people who keeps strong relationships because of the values they see among themselves. So friendships and relationships varies. People are still moving on because they receive support and give support. But many who do not believe in genuine care and love 💕 will continue to keep searching for what they can’t reciprocate.
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