Throughout my entire life, I have stuck to my values, one of which is that I will never knowingly harm anyone, and I will also try to ensure that my actions don't cause harm to anyone, so that someone else will feel like I'm the reason behind their discomfort. Now it's not like that; no one got to suffer due to me; many people did. I was ashamed due to those situations, and even now, I'm the reason for some kind of discomfort to a few people. I'm trying my best to recover from those situations.
Now the question comes, as I have already said, I don't cause harm to anyone knowingly, almost most of us say this, right? The question is, what do I do during those moments? Do I take the blame on me, or do I play the victim card that I didn't do it on purpose, this-that-happened type of statements? I know, i didnt do it on purpose, but still, what should be the actual statement?
To be honest, I do try to make things clear on what happened. If that's not my fault, something intervened in between, then I will definitely bring that in and state that, but yeah, as I am somewhat responsible for the situation, I will acknowledge that as well that there were my faults too. Whether it's my fault partially or completely, I will make sure that I do my best to somehow cover it up, fix things so the damage is less or recovered.
I have seen many people who love to walk away from their own mistakes; they won't agree that they have made the mistake, and somehow they will find the way to play the victim card or put the blame on others. What's the use of it? I see no benefit; the damage is done, so escaping from it is not a good move. Today or tomorrow we're gonna pay for this in one way or the other. Escaping from our own faults has never been fruitful to anyone; eventually, they end up paying for those mistakes or harm they did to others.
Life has always been mysterious to me, especially in these cases. That's why I have always tried my best to be true to myself; I shouldn't be hiding the facts that I have betrayed them, made things ugly for them. If I'm responsible for something, then I will acknowledge it and try my best to fix it or compensate. Running away or playing the victim card is not my preferred way. I know how to face my own mistakes, as I know I'm the guy who can fix things too, at least up to a certain level, perhaps.
