Do you think that it is possible to be in a couple again at the age of 55, 60, 70? I'm talking about a real couple.
Many people long to have solid relationships, but not everyone is willing to take care of and sustain the bond even when circumstances do not make it easier.
To have a heart that you would not hesitate to offer to the people you love, to have a selfless heart despite the times that have failed you, to have a heart that never gives up, to have a heart that gives itself completely, that sometimes I would like to want less, to feel less, to protect myself...
May your faith be greater than your fears... He refers that true love is when both people believe that they have the better half of the agreement as our body, our time and way deserving respect, rest and love.
Sometimes we are like iron: the fire of circumstances takes away our softness but gives us back a hardness capable of resisting the most imposing challenges, I say this for my beloved parents because after 68 years of marriage they now walk in different landscapes, my mom still lives, in this world, and my dad a few months ago walks among the clouds.
The real ability of a bond to sustain itself in times of crisis depends on one of the two remaining calm, remaining non-attacking and doing something even small to support each other. But we forget that if you didn't want that way, that if we didn't love the way we do, the world would be so vac铆o.Es to say, what we desire from the soul, we make it a reality because taking care of our soul is as important as opening our heart.
From my experience, after the honeymoon phase come the challenging moments of a relationship, at any stage of the bond and commitment, even when we are more mature in age some couples go through them and come out grown, conscious, mature to a more satisfying period of Conscious Love.
鉂わ笍 No one stands alone, we all need each other, healing is not erasing the past it is re-signifying it to build step by step the life we dream of. Sometimes healing doesn't mean becoming harder and stronger. Many times, it means becoming softer and more sensitive in a world that forced you to toughen up just to survive.
I don't mean to find someone perfect but rather someone who stays by our side even in the most difficult moments, with authenticity, reciprocity and presence, nothing less than this.
Do you know why? Because more than perfect bonds, true, honest, and real bonds are needed that connect us with depth and gratitude to ourselves, our partner, children, family, and things can be clarified with affective responsibility.
Janitze 馃
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