To love is not to lose your head, it is...

To know how to use it while we are feeling is to promise what we can sustain, it is NOT to idealize what we cannot.we are willing to work, it is not to confuse intensity of the moment with commitment, do you know why I am writing this? Because from my own experience this month what ends up screwing us.

If every day is the day of love, then today we should continue to have details and prove that it doesn't take a holiday to remind us, right?

There is a lot of hypocrisy around days like February 14, both from those who only have a detail on that date so as not to look bad, or to fulfill the commercial mandate of the networks, and from those who say “the day of love is every day,” but every day they do nothing to celebrate or remember it.

It's a day that is full of flowers, dinners, perfect photos, and the truth is that many things happen behind all that, such as: couples trying to avoid what they don't talk about, people believing that being alone is failure, others saying that love is pure marketing and many trying to look their own reality in the face.

To love is not to close ourselves off to connect better with our partner.

Starting with self-love, and from there on, the love present in every bond that we establish in a real and conscious way, leads us to be better people, I have no doubt.

People do not usually fall in love or fall out of love because of what happens in a single day, both processes occur due to the accumulation of details, actions (usually everyday and simple) so beyond the commercial of February 14, the details do matter.

The challenge for everyone who lived with emotion or passion this February day by the way the.they must make sure that the love has not been left in a story or publication of the day of love and has to wait 365 days to reappear next year.

So don't wonder if you have someone? Nor do you question loneliness. In the end, if we do not know how to love ourselves well, we will inevitably be condemned to love very badly.

Self-esteem, self-love, personality structure, all that brings us closer to our best version and from there, to being happy. If we look at love from a full consciousness. In fact, I will always say that each of us should be our own "first love".

I hope that today and always try to show love and affection the rest of the year, as they did this February 14th, get involved in the relationship, create the bond that is most important, be compassionate and renounce their own narcissism for the other, for love, or for as Sigmund Freud once said: "you are never more vulnerable than when you love".

Loving is not falling in love, loving is a difficult decision, because loving implies giving up one's narcissism.

Janitze.🌷