LOH309 || ‎Does it make sense to surround yourself with people like that?...

There are people who love to guess, because their vision board is sometimes wrong especially when they are not even happy about our achievements. Why do you think this is happening? Of course, the people around us are not even happy about our achievements... Is it worth having a friend who is not happy about the good things that happen to us? Can we even be called a friend?

I say this, because I often see that in friendship relationships there are people who get used to you occupying a certain place, and without realizing it we get used to someone helping and the other being helped.

The problem behind this dynamic is not given because someone is in a better or worse position; what attracts attention has to do with the way the other reacts when the roles are reversed, that is, when it is you who begins to fare better.

At that point we see part of the nature of the other: how much the other wanted us to do well or wished the best for one, or how much he liked the way you saw him or made him feel about himself. When things flow unidirectionally in the links, there is a lot to review. Besides I think... Enough of the drama. People choose their life.

Janitze.🐝