We arrived on December 2, 2022... and already what was, was of this year of successes, and challenges in which I have learned much more than others... it is not worth staying or stagnating in the bad starting from the past obstacles.

I have spent more time than usual doing the things I do without planning so much, the ones that come out of the moment, the ones that are part of the anchor in the turbulent episodes because yes, they are your memories, the moments lived, what you learn and become experience from the positive that come together to bring you back afloat.... has been quite an adventure.

Being the two of us together at all times has allowed me to understand him more... this adventure that has touched us makes me be more empathetic and at the same time do what I was not used to for him, for example, watching fiction movies of high range or the same a thousand times hahahahahah is that my man is so square that everything for him is perfect, and I am an imperfect woman.

And we met

I want to tell you who read me that in the decade of 1970-80... we got together without thinking or looking for it, and we have given to our memory and heart, the eternity of a day that has been special and that will never be erased. I repeat... Without thinking and without looking for it because I met my man at the door of my mother's house on a cool afternoon of a day like today, December 2nd.

This man is part of my postcards... his smile and his look made me tremble when I saw him for the first time, it was love at first sight, the one that exists when energies recognize each other and meet again forever.

It is good to look back and see what we have built with all that we are and represent at his side these 45 years, is to decide and give the heart, in good times and bad, with weaknesses and strengths and feel the stomach contracted ... that is to love...

The laughter and the embrace... the shared moment, the caresses of his hands when they run along my back, and the joy when we dance to the sound of good music... no matter what... without listening to judgments... paying attention to the moment, no matter how strong what we live is, it is about treasuring and extending the fragments of happiness that we nurture and give space for our relationship to be solid.

It is often better not to wait... just to be attentive to the here and now. Two years ago I was in June behind a door singing his birthday... both with Covid, with anxiety to a thousand... missing being together as always, holding hands... but now... it's over, here we are, and we are still grateful on the road to success and growth towards 2023.

And our two daughters "peeked out"

When our daughters were born we became four (4), they grew up, studied, graduated, fell in love, and now we multiply with spouses and grandchildren on the way, from the family begins everything, it is an adventure whose journey is risky but also learns.

My purpose is to maintain our complicity that is "UNIQUE" and that has always been there since we became spouses, I admire him for his strength... for being my great support, and for filling my days with a lot of energy... he is my favorite coach... the father of my two daughters. We are happy because we have decided to see beyond our imperfections.

Having said that I had in mind that today I live without dramas and I can only give thanks because in challenges we continue laughing, living special and different moments, suddenly unexpected as planned ... even after so many years together we continue working on getting the formula and the perfect balance ... and I can confirm that sometimes I am half Chucky and that I am not easy ... that says my man ... hahahahahahaha.

If you want to leave a comment on what has been your secret to maintaining your relationship.