Life can be so so funny sometimes, like it is ironic that the people we love and care about and want to talk to every time might not just have our time but you see the ones you don’t like, they are the ones that are always available.
Getting attention from the wrong person is freaking annoying and frustrating. The multiple calls, tons of text messages and don’t get me started with the endearing names likeeee?😩, its creepy and annoying to say the least.
Someone reading this might say why don’t you just tell them you don’t want them in your life, but what if you’ve told them countless times but to no avail, some people can be really persistent you know. So the idea of this post is not to write off anybody, No, it is to highlight the fact that the people you really really like or want to be with in most cases do not give you all the attention you give them.
If I like you? Oh boy you are freaking giving me all the attention there is in this world and when I don’t get it from this my significant other it is always annoying.
Like they say, ‘if wishes were horses beggars would ride’, if only these people that I do not like can trade places with the people that I like, I would be glad😃😃
Imagine my partner always has the time to talk, Lol I don’t mean he should be jobless mind you; I mean at least his job shouldn’t be so time consuming that he doesn’t have enough time to talk.
I don’t know why I have always been attracted to workaholics, I just see myself falling in love with them repeatedly and there goes the lack of communication again, I mean it’s so tiring.
When I am in love, I literally want to tell my partner everything that is happening in my life, like updating him on intervals, just imagine having the juiciest gist of all time, you pick up your phone out of excitement to call your partner and to fill him on every detail, you just can’t wait to hear what he would say or what his reaction would be only to get a message from him saying “sorry babe i will call you later, I am in a meeting”, ARRRGGH! Not again.
It hurts trust me, at this point you just have to swallow everything pending when he is free to talk and by the time he is free you’d probably not be as excited as you were before but you still have to tell him regardless and then you just have to tell him without any ounce of excitement.
Can’t I just be with someone that works hard but still has enough time for me?
I probably sound like a whining child right now but can’t a girl be a bit selfish with her partner?🙈
Lol the whole point of this post is to express how I feel about lack of communication in relationships nothing else.
P/S: I have always had this conversation with whoever I am dating but the universe just has a way of doing things but anyways I am learning how to adapt though.
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