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Let's discuss about a manipulative mindset.
Imagine cheating on someone, then convincing them that THEY are the reason you cheated🤣💔😳
You can’t be invested in another relationship while you’re still with your partner, then turn around and tell them, “You don’t give me peace.”
Peace you don’t give yourself?
Because how do you explain being emotionally invested in someone else while making the person you’re still with feel like they are the problem?
You tell her she is too much. You tell him he is difficult. You say they are toxic. You say the relationship is draining you. And eventually, they start looking inward.
How am I not giving you peace?
What exactly am I doing wrong?
Why have I suddenly become so difficult to love?
Meanwhile, the truth is that your attention, emotions and intentions are already somewhere else.
That is the part people don’t talk about enough.
Sometimes, the person you keep making feel inadequate isn’t actually the problem. They are simply being kept in a relationship where you have already started building another one.
And instead of being honest enough to say, “I no longer want this relationship,” you make them feel guilty for reacting to the betrayal you refuse to admit.
If you have found someone else and that is where your heart truly is, leave.
Leave her alone.
Leave him alone.
Go and be with the person you claim gives you what your partner supposedly cannot.
But don’t keep two people around while you test which relationship will work out.
You cannot eat your cake and have it
You cannot betray someone and then make them feel guilty for noticing.
And you definitely cannot make someone question their worth just because you don’t have the courage to take responsibility for your own choices.
Sometimes, accountability simply means telling the truth and leaving people with their dignity intact.
Yes Yes Yes!!!
You're reading from your handsome friend John Petra.
Peace 🕊️ and love 💕!