Living without fear the marital experience 馃拹/Viviendo sin miedo la experiencia matrimonial 馃拲
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隆Saludos mis queridos Hivers! 馃槉
Les doy la bienvenida a otro cap铆tulo en mi blog.
Greetings my dear Hivers! 馃槉
I welcome you to another chapter on my blog.
| El 10/02 del presente a帽o, mi novio y yo pasamos a una nueva etapa en nuestra nuestra relaci贸n, una que exige m谩s compromiso, m谩s paciencia y madurez, ahora nos toca vivir como un matrimonio.
Hace 2 a帽os que estamos comprometidos, pero pasaron cosas que nos llevaron a posponer la celebraci贸n de la boda. |
On 02/10 of this year, my boyfriend and I moved on to a new stage in our relationship, one that requires more commitment, more patience and maturity, now we have to live as a married couple.
We have been engaged for 2 years, but things happened that led us to postpone the wedding celebration. |
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Lo primero que nos hizo desistir fu茅 el tema de la pandemia, y por todo el alboroto no quisimos forzar las cosas. Una vez que se medio normaliz贸 la situaci贸n, nos encontramos con otro obst谩culo: Nuestra situaci贸n econ贸mica, ninguno quer铆a llevar a cabo este acto en malas condiciones, ya que se supone que es algo que haremos 1 vez en la vida. Hace unos meses hemos estado trabajando duro, pero ten铆amos un 煤ltimo obst谩culo: No tenemos casa propia.
Solo pensaba en que no quer铆a contraer matrimonio y seguir viviendo en casa de mis padres, ya saben lo que dicen: "El que se casa, casa tiene", y cre铆a que har铆amos el rid铆culo cas谩ndonos y viviendo de esta manera. |
The first thing that made us give up was the issue of the pandemic, and because of all the fuss we didn't want to force things. Once the situation was half normalized, we found another obstacle: Our economic situation, none wanted to carry out this act in bad conditions, since it is supposed to be something that we will do once in a lifetime. A few months ago we have been working hard, but we had one last obstacle: We don't have our own house. I only thought that I didn't want to get married and continue living in my parents' house, you know what they say: "He who marries, has a house", and I believed that we would make a fool of ourselves by getting married and living in this way. |
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Pero hace 15 d铆as mi novio me convenci贸 de hacerlo con las siguientes palabras: "La vida es hoy, seguiremos trabajando para lograr tener nuestra casa, nos queremos y tenemos la disposici贸n de asumir este compromiso, entonces, 驴Para qu茅 seguir esperando?". As铆 que me decid铆, entregamos los papeles y de repente ten铆a 15 d铆as para planificar todo 馃サ
Lo primero que tuvimos claro es que no har铆amos nada grande, pues nuestro objetivo principal es la casa y para eso estamos ahorrando. Nuestro presupuesto se planific贸 para lo siguiente:
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But 15 days ago my boyfriend convinced me to do it with the following words: "Life is today, we will continue working to have our house, we love each other and we are willing to make this commitment, so why keep waiting?". So I decided, we delivered the papers and suddenly I had 15 days to plan everything
The first thing we were clear about was that we would not do anything big, because our main objective is the house and that is why we are saving. Our budget was planned for the following:
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驴C贸mo result贸 todo? 隆Maravilloso! La boda fu茅 por civil, pero muy bonita la ceremonia. Las sesi贸n de fotos qued贸 incre铆ble, disfrutamos mucho en familia y nos sentimos muy contentos con nuestra boda. Lo 煤nico negativo es que nos cancelaron la reservaci贸n a 煤ltima hora, as铆 que nos toca esperar hasta el pr贸ximo fin de semana.
A煤n creo que lo ideal es casarse al tener un hogar propio, pero no me arrepiento de haberlo hecho diferente. Tengo la convicci贸n de que en el momento justo tendremos nuestra casa, y comenzaremos a vivir plenamente una relaci贸n como el matrimonio que ahora somos. |
How did it all turn out? Marvelous! The wedding was civil, but the ceremony was very beautiful. The photo session was incredible, we enjoyed it a lot as a family and we are very happy with our wedding. The only negative is that they canceled our reservation at the last minute, so we have to wait until next weekend.
I still think that the ideal is to get married when you have your own home, but I don't regret doing it differently. I am convinced that at the right time we will have our house, and we will begin to fully live a relationship like the marriage that we are now. |
隆Nos leemos pronto!
See you soon!
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