Okay guys, I just felt I needed to bring up this controversial topic about what ladies really want.
Being a man with so many, little or no experience about how ladies think and react to the wooing processes created by the male folks, still find it a hard nut to crack in making the whole wooing process less stressful than it already is.
Alot of guys believe that a ladies NO means YES and her YES means No. This is a myth that has generated a lot of controversy between the male and female folks. A lady tells you she's not interested in a relationship and later on agrees to be in a relationship with the same guy she earlier refused to date. A lady will say she doesn't want to have sex and moments later, she's all cuddled up in the arms of the same guy she earlier refused to sleep with.
All these and many more have birthed the question "WHAT DO LADIES REALLY WANT?". The answer to that question is very simple, 80% of our present day ladies do not really know what they want. Today they want a very rich man, tomorrow they care more about love than riches, today they want a vacation in Paris, tomorrow they prefer dubai than any other place in the world for a vacation. Today they want to have six kids when they get married and when they eventually do get married, they just want to have two kids.
Ladies are complicated and very controversial, this nature of theirs has made wooing an uphill task for the male folks. Similar examples includes when she says she's not going to date you because she has a boyfriend already and months later, she telling you all the sweet things in the world.
How can we over come this controversy in ladies as guys? How can we understand them better so as to please them better?. The answer is very simple "YOU CANNOT COME AND KEE YOURSELF". Any lady that proves too hard to understand, please jump and pass, feel free to move on when you are supposed to. Love is expected to be mutually felt and when it's one sided, it could be detrimental.
Nobody really deserves to get hurt by anybody, be in charge if your emotions and always try to know when it's best to quit trying. Yes, she might eventually agree to date you or she might just keep using you to her own benefit.
A relationship expert once said "IF SHE WANTS YOU, SHE WILL COME GET YOU". Forget the myth that says ladies don't woo guys, just wait till you meet a lady that truly loves you for who you are.
It's the season of valentine and trust me, you wouldn't want to spend all that money on someone that feels absolutely nothing for you.
Say after me, it's better to remain single than to get hurt!
Have a blessed day.
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