It's hard to define success in today's dating environment and it is honestly all relative. Our perception of what it was like during different periods throughout history could be a flash in the pan and a glimpse of what we precieve to be good times but we weren't there.
What if you are over 6' tall, have a six pack, are in the top 1% of strength and power in the world, have a big cock, have money, are driving hella fast in a luxury supercar.
Most married men would rather have my life. I know because a lot have told me they live vicariously through me.
Some of the shenanigans I have pulled off this summer are nothing short of something that would seem to be a madeup story.
I do all this field research to entertain my 13 engaged followers on these DPoS blockchains and report back my findings.
The fact is in the United States men have lost too much leverage to have sustained traction with a looks equivalent female the majority of the time.
There might be some outlier examples that from a distance seem to somewhat make sense but we don't see what is going on behind closed doors or what these guys are putting up with on a daily basis.
In my field research a lot of men are paying out the ass even for women who are a date down or don't even meet baseline requirements from a few decades ago.
For most guys like myself and a lot of my friends aren't going to be paying into these date downs and there are very few of these women we can invest in long term. It makes sense for us to move half the world away before we try to clean up the mess here. Things are only going to get worse here in the United States. I would say we are 5 years behind Japan in our birthrate implosion. We have the Amish, Mormans, Homesteaders, and Mexicans bringing the averages up but I'm predicting that 80% of 30 year old women will be unmarried and childless in 2030.
The modern woman thinks she has unlimited options and unlimited time until she doesn't. Someone should really have a conversation with these women. That would have usually been their fathers but most of these young women have grown up fatherless. Sometimes because these guys were deadbeats but a lot of times the women were incentivised to kick the man to the curb and have him support her from a distance while she gets slammed out by other guys.
The amount of these women I see out window shopping for a bigger better deal is a very large percentage.
For myself I just am not on the dating apps and may reach out to some women who were already in the fold. I may cold approach a woman if she is right in front of me but I'm not going out of my way to try to work the kind of volume it requires to make significant moves in the United States.
I mainly focus on my fitness, my rest, and getting my money up. Chase that paper to stack them coins! 💪😎
For starters the women are very low quality here. Even not being overweight is this miraculous achievement for these women. Most have extreme mental issues from eating processed garbage, taking birth control for years, potentially getting the covid "vaccine" which seems to have scrambled their brains even further.
Then you are going to have to work unbelievable volume so sort through all of this. A lot are in these quasi relationships / situationships, possibility seperated. The amount of women that you run across that are still living with their Ex and are out there trying to monkey branch is a significant percentage.
I'm going to lose the time factor going through Elite Monk Status but once the summer starts to conclude the options fall apart even further. It makes sense to gear up for the Australian summer but ultimately from all my experience and studied other guy's experience I would really need to be in Eastern Europe to have sustained traction with a higher tier of woman.
There is too much friction in the United States. And I'm someone that has a fair amount of success. Most guys aren't able to end up even talking to a woman. The time committment is extreme when you are trying to makes stuff occur with attractive women.
When each of the gyms around here have 1 or maybe 2 women you would take an extended look at it's time to make moves to get out of here. I can tell you this. The guys who are 25 or 28 are running into the same issues and are likely having less success than me. The reason I say this is because I have pictures and videos that a guy that age normally wouldn't have so I look different.
"Brian, you should just settle for one of these women." I understand your thinking and I have weighed that out. Most of the time even if things are going well it's very tough to get things to go longer than 2 or 3 months with a legitimately attractive woman here unless you are paying out the ass to pay off her debts or are letting her run wild and run the show.
The best thing for me right now is try to be as efficient as I can because these women will bleed you out of your time and really dial in to make moves to do more globe trotting where there are greener pastures.
The women in the United States aren't going to care if you leave. From their perception the men are low quality options for them.
