I've seen institutions where too many parents want their kids to be doing and evolving many possibilities even though they themselves are not. Your kids absorb your energy, your mental clarity, your ambitions.
If you struggle with your own values,
your kids will inevitably struggle. If you struggle to build your own career, your kids might struggle to build their own career and they might not settle down in one thing.
You as a parent should set a good example for your kids in how they should move,
how they should go and how they should also live their life if you want them to succeed in the future and if that is your plan.