Because of yours once you have kids how many are so many parents can often end up neglecting their kids the most important thing that you can do for them is to present physically, emotionally, mentally.
We live in the world where as they get older the poor only get more and more overwhelmed by life by life and it is tremendously difficult to judge without that and once you are no longer living on your own time let's not have any time to invest in yourself and taking risk and on the other side of the spectrum they wish don't necessarily become better parents.
We don't live in such a very tough society that you can afford to relax and still remain competitive in whatever you strive to be the best at and as a result they source as much as they can and end up spending way less with their kids than they could have and in retrospect should have.