A loving family and thoughtful friends will actually help you find the main full purpose.
You see people who think they need to have everything figured out before they get married have kids afford time for friendship have it backwards and I'm missing the whole point.
If you're married to an intellectual course you already set yourself up for a very ready life. If you can afford a heady lifestyle, you are ready, ready.
Well done and you have nothing to really worry about or anything to really want to focus about because life is about being content with what you have and being competent in owning yourself, your life and everything that comes with it.