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Muchas veces sin querer podemos pensar mal de otra persona sin si quiera conocerla, es que algunas veces juzgamos a otros y nos creamos una perspectiva en nuestra mente y les hacemos la cruz, esto es algo que nos puede pasar a muchas personas, es como algo natural, es como esa primera impresi贸n que nos dan al conocerlas, seguro que a otras personas les ha pasado con nosotros mismos, y si esta bien porque tampoco somos monedas de oro para caerle bien a todo el mundo y menos desde la primera vez que nos conocen.
Y ese es el tema de la semana, 2锔忊儯 驴Cu谩ndo has juzgado completamente mal a alguien al conocerlo por primera vez y luego has descubierto que era mucho mejor o mucho peor de lo que pensabas originalmente?
Bueno lo que si puedo decir es que tambi茅n me ha pasado lo contrario, he conocido personas que aparentemente se muestran muy buenas personas y muy cheveres al conocerles y al final resultan ser todo lo contrario, es que la vida siempre va a mostrar quien es qui茅n, pero de vuelta al tema si me ha pasado muchas veces que he conocido personas que desde que las conozco me han ca铆do mal y luego resulta que es una tremenda persona.
Hace m谩s de un a帽o conoc铆 a una persona que asiste a la misma iglesia que yo, y est谩 persona cuando la conoc铆 justo ese d铆a ten铆amos que ir a visitar a otra persona para ayudarle en una situaci贸n que esta estaba pasando, cuando la conoc铆 me pareci贸 una persona pretenciosa y jactansiosa, la verdad me cayo un poco mal y paso un tiempo cuando volvimos a coincidir y volvimos a interactuar, por supuesto ya yo ten铆a mi idea en la cabeza y hab铆a catalogado y juzgado a ea persona en mi mente, por lo que no era que quer铆a compartir mucho con ella.
Pasado unos meses las coincidencias ya eran m谩s frecuentes y comenzamos a conversar m谩s, ya no ten铆a esa impresi贸n de ella, fui cambiando la manera de pensar y claro yo estaba equivocada, es una persona amable, buena gente, inteligente y resulta que ten铆amos muchas cosas en com煤n, esto me hizo pensar que cuando nos tomamos el tiempo para conocer a alguien podemos ver sus cualidades, descubrir cosas que pueden conectarnos, he visto que muchas veces a las personas que juzgamos duramente resultan ser personas con las que luego conectamos y se puede lograr una hermosa amistad, por ello no debemos juzgar duramente a las personas, tambi茅n hay que tomar en cuenta que cada persona tiene una historia, experiencias distintas a las nuestras y que todos de alguna manera somos diferentes.
Invito a participar a @sacra97
@soyunasantacruz y
@syllem
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Many times, without meaning to, we can think badly of another person without even knowing them. Sometimes we judge others and create a perspective in our minds and write them off. This is something that can happen to many people; it's natural, like the first impression we get when we meet someone. I'm sure other people have done this to us, and that's okay because we're not perfect either, and we can't be liked by everyone, especially when they first meet us.
And that's the topic of the week, 2锔忊儯 When have you completely misjudged someone when you first met them and then discovered that they were much better or much worse than you originally thought?
Well, what I can say is that the opposite has also happened to me. I have met people who seem like really nice, cool people when you first meet them, but in the end they turn out to be the complete opposite. Life will always show you who people really are, but getting back to the topic, it has happened to me many times that I have met people who I didn't like when I first met them, but then it turns out that they are wonderful people.
More than a year ago, I met someone who attends the same church as me, and when I met this person, we had to go visit someone else to help them with a situation they were going through. When I met them, they seemed pretentious and boastful to me, and I didn't really like them very much. Some time passed, and we met again and interacted again. Of course, I already had my mind made up and had labeled and judged this person in my mind, so I didn't really want to share much with them.
After a few months, our encounters became more frequent and we began to talk more. I no longer had that impression of her, I changed my way of thinking and of course I was wrong. She is a kind person, a good person, intelligent, and it turns out we had a lot in common. This made me think that when we take the time to get to know someone, we can see their qualities and discover things that can connect us. I have seen that many times the people we judge harshly turn out to be people with whom we later connect and form a beautiful friendship. That is why we should not judge people harshly. We must also take into account that each person has a history and experiences that are different from ours and that we are all different in some way.
I invite
@sacra97,
@soyunasantacruz, and
@syllem to participate.
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