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What is essential for you to be happy?
ChatGPT cannot give you that answer. Because every human being has their own meaning and purpose in life.
What is the meaning of life? Meaning has to do with, or is related to, my talents.
When I find my meaning, I discover my talents, what I do best. I take that and apply it to my profession, to my way of life.
In this way, I am assigning purpose and meaning to my life.
Purpose must be good for ourselves, and it must be good for others.
If it isn't, it's not purpose.
And that is what we, as a society, are losing. We are losing the essence of humanity, which is to do our best. And our best must also be something good for others.
Joy needs a reason.
For example, you are joyful because you bought a new car. You are happy because your child got into college, or because you managed to find the solution to a problem that had been plaguing you for a long time.
People confuse happiness with joy.
The word happiness may have its roots in the word “augurium” or “felix". It means fruitful. It is when we recognize what is good in us, and that goodness makes us better and bears fruit.
It is to follow your MEANING and your PURPOSE in life. That is what happiness is.
That is why you can be sad and happy at the same time.
You can be sad for a valid reason. Sadness and joy are just emotions. They have a reason, a factor.
But even if I am sad for a reason, I can be happy (with happiness) because I am fulfilling my meaning and my purpose.
And I can even be happier, because despite the sadness, I am continuing to fulfill my meaning and my purpose.
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