Many times, we get worked up over things we can do without. Likewise, we tend to worry too much over things that will eventually sort itself out with time. And during these periods, we become unhappy and mentally stressed.
Most people have chosen to indulge in the comparison game. They always feel others are doing better than them.
It is worth noting that, all fingers are not equal. Just because your friend is traveling around the world or they have sophisticated gadgets and living luxurious lifestyles while you are barely surviving shouldn't make you feel less of a human.
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Don't let inferiority complex take the stage in your life. Neither should you feel that you are less important, less intelligent, or less beautiful.
Inferiority complex gives birth to unhappiness and destroys your self esteem.
Happiness is a Choice
Happiness and peace of mind are vital and one should learn to pursue them. Learn how to stay happy without money. But be hardworking, diligent and creative. Work on something genuine.
Learn how to stay happy without a relationship. Just because your peers are flaunting their relationships everywhere on social media doesn't make it so perfect, you can't tell the physical abuses they are going through.
Most of them from these toxic relationships get into an abusive marriages and they might just be covering up their agony with money and glitters.
Learn how to stay happy without many clothes and shoes in your wardrobe.
Learn how to stay happy with your physical flaws. Yes, even before anyone body shames you , you are already body shaming yourself; my eyeballs are huge, I have hip dips, my head and ears are big, I am too fat, I am too skinny, my boobs are sagging, my skin colour and the rest.
You don't even love yourself enough and it's easy for another to spot the flaws and capitalize on it. You are your own beautiful and you just need to appreciate yourself, you can as well rock your flaws in a smashingly beautiful way and another is envious of it.
Learn how to stay happy without friends. you don't need a particular clique to stay happy, your joy and happiness mustn't always be derived from people all the time.
I am not saying that you should have enemies but let it be that with or without anyone around you, you can stay happy and make yourself happy as well.
Learn how to stay happy all alone.
Thank God for Tiktok and other apps that could make you do exciting things all by yourself.
Learn how to stay happy without sophisticated gadgets, you can survive happily without them.
Learn how to stay happy even when you are going through a lot. Learn how to stay happy when things aren't going the way you wanted.
Happiness is indeed free, everyone deserves it. And it can only start from you, You are responsible for your happiness. Your happiness should solely depend on you and not anyone or anything influencing it.