The heart of ladies can be likened to a magnet, surrounded by magnetic fields (men that won't cease to disturb) as long as the magnetic flux emanates from the north pole to the south's. That your own divergence of charge density towards any lady tends towards zero (∇.ρ= 0) is nothing but luck. That a lady accepted your proposal doesn't depict you are the best of men, remember others equally tried. They are not just lucky enough to win the heart of the lady in question.
Like the plants on nursery beds, you have to water the mind of the ladies, let her know you truly love for the sake of love and nothing more, tell her to tell those she snubbed that she has a partner already (either from how she does things or from her general conducts ). She has to tell them!
TELL THEM...
Tell the rain
to fall a little
Tell it; this mushroom has had
on its head: a shield.
Tell d aliens
to think less of invasion,
Tell them; this land has crowned
a warrior king.
Tell the competing hands
that the burrow of a horn
cannot harbour two fingers
at a time.
Forget not to tell them
that it's only me
you see as an actor
in your virtual movie of dreams.