You are here. Your heart feels empty, and life feels confusing. Nothing feels okay, but the reality is that you have to be okay. But how?
The answer is always with time, you will heal. What you do with that time however can either be productive or destructive.
1.)Lean on Friends: Your friends are your world that will make sense right now. Even if you have not seen them in a long time, you now have the time to reignite your friendships. It doesn't matter who or where your friends are, whether they are near, or people you have met on Steemit, they will be there for you 100%. Tell them exactly what you need. That you don't feel like going anywhere so you need extra motivation, tell them you need someone to talk to or make silly jokes with. These are your people and they will know how to make the time pass while you come to terms with your loss.
2.)Learn from the Relationship: Your relationship ended for a reason, and it was either a good thing or a bad thing. Regardless you need to make mental notes on what it is you learned and what you want to change about yourself or watch out for in the future. You might realize that you need to be more considerate and thoughtful, or you need to pay more attention to red flags that you know you ignored for too long. Don't make this a time where you learn nothing. Make this a time where you learn everything you can to be a better person.
3.)Don't Become Heartless: It is very easy after the loss of a relationship to become lost in never wanting to be hurt again, never wanting to feel vulnerable. But if this is the way you think, you are never really going to move on. You will continue to be in the same place as before. And that is not what life is all about. Always love hard, and be strong. Because you never know who is passing you by when you are determined not to love again.
