'Love does not come from nothing and appears thanks to a combination of genetics with physiological and emotional states of a particular moment, to which are added a dose of individual learning, personal needs and ideas about love.
You have to be attentive to the small and big details that make the other person happy, always keeping in mind that daily life is more important than impacting (kind words and gestures). Also, you have to go little by little, the relationships are built day by day and not with special effects, says Cahue; Although in reality the options are endless, six basic models of couples have been identified in today's society, and he describes them in the following way: 'We are born to love at any stage of our life.
- To be a couple is no longer essential to live together. Nowadays, although there is a stable commitment, it is common for everyone to live in their home.
The reasons for preferring this model are varied, but the important thing is that both agree and there is a solid foundation of trust and security for both.
There are couples in which everything (time, space, leisure, money, furniture) belongs to both. Personal spaces are not given and everything is mixed. An alternative is to be together but not mixed up and, in spite of sharing certain spaces with the couple, others that are deprived of each one can be distinguished clearly. They can also be perfectly incorporated in what is a calm relationship.
A life without a partner can also be full, positive, satisfying and of quality, according to the expert, because you do not have to wait until someone comes to occupy the other half of the throne, nor put expectations in that someone does an emotional rescue or spark. or interests day to day. The models can be infinite, but they summarize the features of couples that we may not be used to.
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