Happy Sunday Everyone, also, welcome to my blog,
So this is actually an interestin prompt from the Indiaunited tables, why? because I think both being single and being in a relationship have their own advantages and challenges.
So I do enjoy the feeling of being single, but truth be told, I still like the idea of being with someone, someone I can call mine and he can call me his, I like the whole idea of companionship, and yes, I know the whole deal that comes with being in a relationship, It is not a bed of roses at times.
Being single comes with a certain kind of freedom that I enjoy, you get to focus on yourself, your goals, your plans, and the things that matter to you without having to constantly consider another person's opinions or feelings in every decision you make, there is peace in that sometimes.
I enjoy having my own space, yes do I enjoy being able to do my things at my own pace and focus on the responsibilities that I already have on my plate,see because life itself can be very demanding, but then even with all that, I still like the idea of having someone I call mine in my life.
I like the idea of having someone to talk to at the end of a long day, like someone to share my good news with, someone to laugh with over some silly things, I mean someone who understands me beyond what everyone else sees.
I think companionship is one of the beautiful parts of life, and it is not because you need another person to complete you, but because sharing life with someone can make some certain moments more meaningful than they would be, the victories feel sweeter when someone is celebrating with you, and the difficult days feel lighter when someone is standing beside you.
With my experience of being in a relationship, someone would think that I will not want to give love a chance again.
See honestly, me i will not blame them for thinking like that.
There have been experiences that could easily make some one decide that relationships are not worth the stress at all, because there have been disappointments, heartbreaks, misunderstandings, and moments where you jus5question whether love is even worth trying for again.
But that's not it, I will still give love a chance.
Not because I believe every relationship will be perfect, but because I understand that every experience is different, one bad experience does not mean every future experience will be the same.
I know that relationships require patience, communication, understanding, compromise, and a lot of effort from the both parties involved and trust me i know that they are not always easy.
But despite knowing all that, I still like the idea of being with someone,
To share someone else's life that's not mine.....
To build memories together.....
To support each other through different stages of life.....
To have someone who genuinely cares about your wellbeing and whose wellbeing you care about too.
So if I could freely choose my path, I will not choose to stay single forever.
I enjoy being single, yes.
But I still believe in companionship, i still believe in love too, and if the right person comes along, I would absolutely be willing to give love another chance.
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