Hi Guys,
How are you guys?? Hope you all are doing very well. I guess everyone enjoyed the holidays and now are back to work. Good Luck!! Today, I wanted to write about something which we all have gone through at some point of time in life. Hope you all enjoy reading.
Have you ever felt unwanted, unsafe in your relationship? Ever sensed someone slowly losing interest in you? Ever perceived a thought of lacking behind someone who is close to you?I believe the questions are very common but the answers are really not. Lately, I have been in this situation and that is the reason I can relate to this feeling of yours.
Every so often, these are some of our best relationships and we blame ourselves for this. We doubt our own wisdom for letting our best relationship go. But why does this exactly happen? Are we really at fault? Did we do something wrong and is it ok to let these special bonds go?
Well, my answer to these questions is “Yes” or a “No”. It’s completely fine if you don’t agree with my point of view but the answer is definitely “might be”. We are humans and committing mistakes is conventional. Sometimes in life we unknowingly commit grave mistakes which might lead to troubles in a relationship. I mean nobody wants to bother a happy relationship willingly but whilst you are busy making money for a grand wedding s/he might be just looking for a movie night with you on the couch with popcorn.
I am not commenting that keeping yourself busy in the former idea is wrong but sometimes we just need to understand the need of the hour. At times we just don’t realize the primitive worth of these small moments and lose the wealth they have in store. In a relationship, this treasure is something you can carry for life and it will increase every time you spend some more from this treasure. Happiness might lie in the simpler tasks.
Just give it some more time, rather than just assuming what your partner must be wanting/thinking you must talk to them and understand the requirement. Sometimes, even simple 15 minute talk can lead to the solution of a complex problem.
And if you are someone who gave it all in the relationship and is still feeling the same, then my dear, let that person leave. Bid them a good bye with an open heart. Yes, you will lose it for sometime and it will definitely be very hard for you to collect the broken pieces of yours but a while later you will be doing fine. Even after giving the best nourishment to that relation if it didn’t grow then it was never meant to be. To clutch onto a relationship like this is doing injustice to yourself. Take a deep breath and let it go. Feel free and give love another chance.♥️♥️
Thank you for reading me out guys.😊
