Hi everyone! I am a cool-headed person now. So I rarely got angry. Anger is not a good quality for a man. Anger can destroy a relationship between two or more persons. A man can get angry for many reasons.
There are different reasons for anger. Different professions have different reasons for anger. There is no particular reason for anger. Parents can get angry with their child for being disobeyed them. A teacher can get angry with their students for disrespecting them or not studying properly or making chaos in the classroom etc. A traffic police can get angry with the drivers for driving in over speed or failed to show the necessary papers.
Children at their early age express their anger very often. As they have no sense of understanding which is good and which is not good for them they demand anything whatever they like. But their parents try to give the best things to their child. If a child don’t like their patents choice they got anger. My anger is also different in different ages and different situations.
When I was child I got anger rapidly in any situations against me. If I like something to get but my parents didn’t give me that I got anger. I was angry untill I got my expected things. I liked toys in my childhood most. Whenever I went to market with my mom I searched for new toys to but. If my mom rejected me I had been crying on the spot. Sometimes my mom didn’t buy the toys to change my habit. She thought if she supported my bad habits of anger it would be permanent in my character. I would suffer in the long run for this bad habit.
In my childhood I didn’t accept others anger with me. That made me more angry. One day when I was in class nine during my registration period of my school a form was given to me to fillup. That was a practice form, not original form.I tried to fillup that form by myself.I rarely fillup this type forms. I did some wrong to fillup some data. I show that to my grandfather, my mothers father. He was a professor of history in National University of Bangladesh. He was too sensitive to fillup any forms. Even I saw that he already showed his anger to my cousins for doin wrong in form. I firgot that and showed my form to him. Then when he found some mistakes he started to angry with me. He told me a lot of speech with anger which no one told be before in my life still now. As a teachers grandson he didn’t accept my fault at all. This made his anger more. When I told him that it was not the main form then he sudden stopped and told me why I didn’t tell him this before. He felt sorry for me but where his anger stooped, my anger started there. I was not too matured to adopt with his anger. Then fir a long time I could not talk with him friendly. After three years I realised that it was wrong doing with my grandfather. Then I started to talk with him normally.
I think showing anger is not a good thing for anyone. It is bad for physical and mental health. One should follow the perspective why he would be angry with someone. Whether it results in positive or negetive for both should be judged by us before getting angry.
