It seems that life has combined with different periods and multiple challenges and dealing with that thing sometimes we get too stressed to find out a suitable solution. Stress is a part and parcel of everyone's, no one denies that. You might claim yourself that you have never been stressed in your life. Then I would like to ask you a question, no need to answer me. The question you are going to detect in the next phrase, you just ask your soul, that's it. Everyone dreams whether in reality or in fantasy. Do all the dreams which you have watched fulfilled? No one can claim that.
Do you know how stress takes an entry into our life? I feel It comes with expectations more clearly It comes with over expectations which is too hard for you to make them convert into reality. Let me tell you about an incident which happened last night. A boy whom I know quite well, In fact, I had introduced to himself nearly four months before. Well, the boy is now in the secondary stage of his academic life. He had a very sweet past. The time he had spent his life according to his own way. He lived in a rural place where he truly had no sense about education. In fact, his parents did not pressure him to do his study attentively.
That's why he was an average student who had no aim about what to do in next. He did not worry about his upcoming days because the future was blurred to him. After passing the secondary level he had to shift from the rural areas to the city where I am living now. Just had to shift just because of admitting himself to college over there. He has to quit his family and fix a hostel to continue his study. A new place, a new environment even everything seems unusual to him. He had to adapt to that. He noticed boys of his were too fast and advanced about their studies or anything.
Having been in an unknown place for, the first couple of days he noticed every single thing quite deeply to know what next. As I said earlier he did not worry about his future because the future based on his study was blurry to him. As he shifted to a new place his blurry thing was cleared day by day and he gradually interested in his study. Well, this is a good thing, right? Yes, It is. Last time, he participated in half yearly exam. To me, he has done much better results than ever. But he was not happy with it. I know, he studied too seriously to get a good mark. He expected beyond anything. He asked me a question last night, " How does someone lead his life having in a stressful condition? "
Well, I told him like stress comes and goes which is a normal process of life. I believe we should keep on the basis to walk on the way of life. You might look at the past and present at the same time you feel how much you are changed. A boy who had no dream now has a lot of dreams to fulfil he is fighting and pushing himself. Isn't it a great thing? Yes, It is. I feel If your basic is right then I believe something positive will happen. I know, expectations push you to do well. Sometimes you might compare yourself with your old version to detect your improvement and I feel in that way you get pleasure from stress.
