Should I or should I not, that is the question I keep asking myself.
Last night, I had run into a friend that I haven't seen in a while. She came around to visit my neighbor, who also happens to be another friend of mine, and on her way going back home, we ran into each other, and she had decided to stay back for another hour just to catch up with me.
During our many conversations, she began to talk to me about this neighbour of mine (aka my friend), about how he has been pressuring her to date him and whatnot. The moment she started the conversation, I already could tell the direction it was headed and tried avoiding it but she persisted.
Aftr giving me the back story of how they met, she eventually asked me the question I already knew was coming. She had asked me to give her my opinion on what type of guy he was and if it would be good for her to go into a relationship with someone like him.
Now this neighbour in question happen to be a chronic womaniser and asking ladies to date him just to sleep with them has always been his modules operandi, and it was something most of the guys here know about him. So I already had an answer to her question but then there was the problem of me always wanting to mind my business and not get involve into other peoples issue, not to talk of one that has to do with matters concerning the heart.
Also, there was no way I could try to b a good friend to on of them here without being a terrible friend to the other. So I did the only thing I could do, I answered the question without really answering the question.
I had told her to follow her and do what she feels is right for her. But ever since she left, I can't stop feeling like I didn't do what was right, like I should have really advised her against we accepting him.
Tell me, if you were in my shoes, what would you have done?
