How do you know what kind of woman are you? So many times, any woman have thought about it, most of us dream of being the perfect woman idealized by the conceptualization of the perfect woman that we have heard so many times.
So, taking into consideration this idealization of a perfect woman, "she" has the following characteristics: sculpted body, professional, married, with children, successful in order to reflect that is a free person, happy and with a permanent smile in her face.
I won't deny it, achieve all or some of the characteristics mentioned above produces satisfaction, but perhaps not achieve any of these goals impairs your ability to be happy?
But in reality, it's necessary to see beyond the stereotypes created or accepted by the beliefs or social customs of the families, cities or countries in which we were born and have this life experience that we are currently experiencing.
Particularly I believe that God has created us for more, we are in this world to evolve. I believe that our reality is constantly being created by us, our mind, thoughts, and words. We build our reality, based on the learned and inherited paradigms.
Because in the end, the important thing is to achieve happiness.
These reflections are read and it's thought that it's easy to do, nothing further from reality. Or expressed in a better way, usually, this simple task is complicated in the most creative ways thanks to ourselves.
In order to evolve in our way of life, we must learn and grow as human beings, an effective way to achieve this evolution is based on family ties. And with it the beliefs and learning reflected in the culture related to the family clan, their intelligence, and knowledge, as well as the environment provided by society, the country and the continent in which we live.
All these forms only the basis with which one begins to write in the book of life.
It's at this point that we must become aware and analyze that the patterns and paradigms created by the society that surrounds us should not determine our perception of ourselves, on the contrary, we have to be aware that the success and satisfaction of knowing that we are on the right path to our happiness lies in recognizing ourselves, that beauty is really in our feelings and good deeds. That the beauty of the soul, with every good action, grows so much that it's reflected in the physical body in a miraculous way and that self-acceptance is the best of therapies for mental health.
That true happiness is born within yourself, from the depths of your being and feeds on the acceptance, that your heart knows the way and that a calm mind analyzes it and makes it possible.
But, to have a calm mind, all sabotaging thoughts must be eliminated, meditation and breathing are great allies in this mind - heart integration process.
Remember, you are a Wonder Woman and you are here to be happy.
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