How to change, despite the understanding, the harsh reality is that who we are of essence, it is almost impossible, having grown up under certain parameters of rectitude, makes us be very demanding with the world that surrounds us, but something very certain is that trying to understand the circumstances of the world around us, is to exhaust moments that really teach us to grow. It is like fighting a tide or simply swimming always in the same place, either we are going to drown or we are going to tire.
It is human to feel that fear of surrendering and continuing, but it is always necessary to raise our heads, look high and take the road. I know you have heard that from the famous comfort zone, there are many opportunities, which are given only with the undertaking to make the right decisions.
Doubting and overloading them prevents us from doing it, only people who want radical changes, for good are those who bravely take on this challenge. A few days ago I read that pouring so much water to a plant, it will not make it grow more beautiful, you can damage it, it is not very good to give more so be our will, the excesses are negative, for more love than you can not expect to be amen, is one of the most incompressible controversies that exist.
I want to end with a sentence: If you decide to leave and nobody prevents you, walking is for sure the best decision you made.