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People often struggle to change into what they want to be because they think they need to add to their life, new habits, new books, new relationships, new challenges, when they do this often they are challenged to some sort of subtraction.
You remove the causes of your anxiety, your anger, your envy, your stress and suddenly you find yourself experiencing life in a confident, clean-minded, calm and joyful version of yourself without you realising
about what is happening next, it feels like a joke but that is our life as a lesbian.
It might not know what's happening, that is how it has been programmed for you.