The way you look at yourself is the same way others will look at you, the value you place on yourself will be equivalent to the value your life gets from people .
Some people expect that they sould be placed on high values when even they themself do not look at themselve as being able to make something good out of themselves. There are some individuals in the society who believe that they were created to serve others and that their destiny does not warrant the good things of life, so they die being slaves to the wealthy ones.
Self love, self acceptance and self appreciation are importance factors that cannot be over ephasized, i know of some people who do not like anything about thier body but they always admire other people's body and people like that always expect that they get love and appreciation from others which is not possible because they have presented themself as being de valued.
Tips on how to have a good self esteem.
Accept tht you are wrong : You need to accept the fact that you have been wrong on the decisions you have made in the past and you need to forgive your self .
Change your mentality: Start seeeing yurself from a positive perspective, believe in your ability to do great things and always see yourself as a sucess.
Work hard: For every successful person, laziness is never an option, so work hard and with determination greatness will have no option than to run afteer you.
Spend a week without bothering yourself about how you look.
Respect yourself.
Love yourself and love what you do.
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