Also one thing about life is you need level of self-respect to stop allowing people that only come for you when they need something in your life.
When they only want something from you they come you don't have to put yourself in such a humiliating position because that is not the better place. To be in your life because it does not benefit you at all that is why you have to be careful on who you let into your life make it known from the onset that you are not that kind of person and stop entertaining people do not value you and they only come in addition from you.
That is the lowest form of relationship ever that can ever happen to you and it is not healthy at all to you because it will demoralize you for those who actually value you and you might start having bad thoughts to everyone around you.