You see that most people that have gone through hardship in life are the most of the calmest people and the sweetest people ever and whenever there is a situation something spills or something happens.
They don't make a big deal about anything because they know what actually stress and what trouble feels like so they are already doing everything to avoid it so they avoid being in that emotional state ever been so to me that is one of the most attractive qualities anyone can have whenever is going down you are calm.
You collected your kind there's no need to be anything than that so because what is that your goal your goal is to just be calm to solve problems and not quit more problems and that is what is very important in life to stay calm to solve problems that requires good
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