Accept conflict as normal.
Perfection only exists in Hollywood. Disagreements happen. Unless you're embroiled in severe problems (unfaithfulness, abuse, addictions, legal problems, or violence), don't throw away a relationship because you've hit a rough patch. Trust and commitment deepen as you travel through storms together.
Grow yourself up emotionally.
Many people behave in a dysfunctional manner. What you consider "normal" behavior may actually be destructive to yourself or others. If you're confused as to whether your behavior is "emotionally mature," ask yourself: Am I enjoying fulfilling, intimate relationships? Am I feeling vibrant and healthy? Am I living my life with purpose and meaning? If the answer is "no," be brave and face your issues. Talk with a skilled therapist, pastor, or counselor.
Take (or give) space.
Partners may choose to separate (either physically or emotionally) while they work on their own individual issues. Healing childhood wounds is difficult enough without having to be accountable to a partner. If your partner asks for space, give him the world. Stop all stalking peering at Facebook, driving by his work, or asking friends for information. Stop obsessing about anyone else's life except your own.
ESSENTIAL SECRETS OF MAKING A RELATIONSHIP WORK | Ecency
