Hi beautiful people.... let's talk about relationship today.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a man who is financially responsible and there is nothing also wrong with wanting a partner who can support you yes.
But sometimes I wonder where we drew the line between wanting a responsible partner and expecting someone to fund a lifestyle you cannot afford yourself.
Because these days, a man can genuinely love a woman and still not be able to give her everything she wants.
And that doesn’t automatically make him broke.
Just like a woman can genuinely love a man and still expect him to contribute financially to the relationship.That doesn’t automatically make her materialistic.
The problem begins when money becomes the evidence we use to measure love.
If he loves me, he will give me.
If she loves me, she won’t ask me for anything.
If he can’t afford this lifestyle, he’s not my kind of man.
If she needs financial support, she’s using me.
And suddenly, people aren’t even asking:Do we actually love each other?
They’re asking:
What can you do for me?
Maybe that’s why so many modern relationships feel more like negotiations than relationships.
But I genuinely want to hear different opinions on this one.Should a man be expected to financially provide during dating, or should financial responsibility only become a serious expectation after marriage?
You're reading from your handsome friend John Petra.
Peace 🕊️ and love 💕
