Happy, unpredictable and spontaneous weekend..|| Week:181

As far as possible, Galen, we share many activities as a couple, in the week we do not do it because everyone is in their responsibilities and work, professional commitments.

On weekends, at this almost December time of the year, my husband and I add what makes us smile, so within our unstructured organization only Saturday and Sunday, our routines are relaxed, spontaneous and unpredictable.

We get up at 6 am, and before 7 am we will walk, jog, do exercises on the shore of the beach, after having our cup of coffee. To find the beach already raked, clean with its active people, placing awnings and tables, without a "mouse" face, that is, of being late for the Friday night revelry, hahaha, or bad mood, we are glad of the moment, then we had a copious breakfast (Brunch).

Even that day, there are pending related to the house, its operability, the supermarket and banks, any paperwork that we have to do together.

But it starts after Saturday at noon, to us.

It become a kind of paradise that has to do with what we want to do in the execution times (organization) that we have planned, that without having to be aware of the clock (that's why it is unstructured), without order in the tasks, nor in the activities.

What results in a real relaxation is this of letting go of self-exigency at least Saturday and Sunday, because we do everything calmly, as far as we get, and we can, and at the pace of my turtle Boti, who is always close to us.

By the way, Galen, we have been planning our Christmas since November 18th, because we also have a lot of social life on weekends, we go to the movies, the theater, the bookstore, listen to music, read, and I prepare my Saturday and Sunday articles to post on Hive.

We dedicated two days to ourselves, without work and without people, screwing our life, to eat calmly, to connect with that other person who is the same and has grown and who shows me that I am the same and I have grown as a person and as a couple with J. R.

We talk, we catch up on weekends, it's being absent from other things: from social networks, from work tasks, from problems that I can't solve. It is to dedicate myself to BEING (with capital letters) and it is wonderful, to be present in our bond.

Today I share with you Galen, part of my Christmas decoration where Boti, my little totuga whale, exudes calm in its walk.

Janitze.