The future is not expected. It is designed. It is not empty motivation. It is a strategy with a conscience, to stop procrastinating and start building.
When you find someone who loves to see you happy, who values, respects and protects you, someone who wants a future with you, someone who always chooses you and loves even your flaws, don't be afraid, just enjoy it, there are still people who know how to love and you deserve one of them.
Personal life has a variety of scenarios. Some are very funny that add to your life and leave interesting degrees of learning.
Other scenarios annoy, disturb and subtract, although they are always our scenarios we also learn from them, so the best we can do is observe, thank, and run away from there so as not to repeat them.
Trust in what your heart truly longs for, you will find its way to you. Let's honor our station. Each cycle brings its hidden gift, they come with times of running with the wind, moments of standing still and listening to each other, to sow, water, harvest.
This is what I write about, for example, when the cell phone runs out of space, the first thing we delete is what matters least to us: old screenshots, worthless files, photos that no longer tell us anything. Well... it's the same with interest.
If someone erases you from their life * if they stop writing to you, calling you, proposing plans* it wasn't because of lack of time, it was because of priority. Because when something or someone matters, space is made. And when it is not, it is eliminated without guilt, there is no future.
It's that simple, it's that clear.
Sometimes, in the attempt to look good to everyone, you end up losing something more important: loyalty. Because neutrality is not always a virtue; many times it is simply to avoid inconveniencing.
But when someone we love is hurt, looking the other way also says a lot. Loyalty is not declared, it is demonstrated. And it shows, especially, when taking a posture is not the comfortable thing... but it is the right thing to do.
Sometimes, they tell us “give it time"“ "let's see what happens”…
Choosing to stay to build
instead of going to the first change, in an era where everything is disposable, it is an act of courage, just like not applying the ice law and encouraging you to talk about things, even if they hurt, inconvenience or expose you,
it is also courage.
Not to disappear, but to give the face, as a functional, responsible and empathetic adult, it is another form of courage. Because today, in times of fragile egos and superficial bonds, to be a decent human being it is the greatest act of rebellion. The future isn't coming you're just creating it.
By the way, not everything I write is self-referential. I'm just exemplifying.
Janitze 🤔
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