Many and very diverse are the myths that speak of these passages, of changing the way of dying, of such transcendental experiences in human life when making requiem for their farewell, for the return home, to the heavenly Eden.
As humans, we go through different stages, it is part of our growth, with changes, transitions where we deny, evade, flee the inevitable periods of descents to the underworld, to the “world of the dead”, to the shadows, to that darkness, our own, that of our affections and that of the world, without knowing that, perhaps there, we will find the most noble and sensitive qualities of our humanity.
To thank our transit through life, about to take flight
That is why it is good to die in peace, without earrings, to have been able to express to our loved ones how our passage through life was, to receive love, and forgiveness for our actions, to free ourselves and them from emotional commitments, to focus on the positive elements of remembrance to reconcile with the past.
Also, through physical contact with hugs, caresses, and holding our hands with the person who is traveling the road to death because the prognostic of life is very limited to months or weeks.
When that is so, why prolong the physical suffering that has an obvious psychosomatic origin? Where our emotions are very much involved in that suffering, more than in our organism.
In those hard moments, those who are going through this irreversible transition feel more than ever the need for the affection of the family, and it is very important to have patience, restraint and love in absolute surrender to everything that has already fulfilled its time.
I think God always has the last word, even when making a decision like that. Undoubtedly there are doubts if it is a time when there is nothing more to do to prolong a suffering for an indeterminate time just because of selfishness, because of the attachment of not having to suffer the loss of a loved one is meaningless, it is a lot of fear of suffering.
On the other hand, if the legislation of that country, state, is in favor and the loved one claims it, it is fair to end that suffering in certain cases where there is nothing more to offer from science than to give him or her the good death.
Not all terminal illnesses, even accidental ones do not allow that, to have a good death
It is necessary after the departure of the loved one, to understand all this, to know how to help, the rest of the family that did not agree with the decision made. We suffer because we feel vulnerable because we are human beings, and we are distressed, cowed and overwhelmed by the fear of our own suffering when it comes to coping with the loss of a loved one.
Even when death usually erases memories, especially the not so good ones, nostalgia, guilt and regret always surface and this process about to take flight, takes place alone and according to the social, religious, cultural characteristics of the family group, because the suffering will be different for each of them.
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