Hey everyone , how are you all doing ? Don’t worry , my blog is here to make you feel good 🙂 This is my 4th blog on the person whom we all know by heart. Thank you guys for liking my previous blog posts and i promise to keep writing good content 🙂 Let’s go.
But Who Is That Person?
You have read the topic for today’s blog and would not completely understand it . Let me help you here . This is a blog about a person who is the most important to you. He/she is your first priority. You love them , are ready to do anything to save them from any trouble , and in return expect just that the person should be yours forever ! Isn’t that weird ? Like attached to a person for your whole life. It is sweet and many people may also call it “Goals” and what not but it is not that easy as it seems. You need to constantly care for their mood , listen to them patiently , let them have their space and freedom , but we all know this is the basis for love 🙂 This person can be anyone ( like literally anyone ) . For example , the person for you maybe your boyfriend / girlfriend , mom , dad , aunt , brother , sister , daughter , son , grandparents etc.
You just wish from god that they just keep you in their lives forever. But hey , why you feel so good and have a special place in your heart for a specific person only? Let’s see.
But Why Only That Person?
You by now may have got your “favourite person” , but ever wondered why your heart chose that person only? I thought so. Well , i realized this after a long time and i am bringing this to you 🙂 This is primarily because you always feel so happy and good around that person because their presence makes you feel safe and makes you feel “live”. You feel loved and you feel that their presence matters to you the most (it actually does!). You feel that without them , you cannot even take a small step but with them , you can even climb the Mount Everest. You gain confidence and you have so much love for them that you cannot even stay angry or mad at them for a long time . When you fight with them , it seems like your world is falling apart but as soon they help , you manage to get back all your pieces together and just live again :)(Yeah , Feel me? ) You feel safe and you sometimes become selfish to share that person with someone else 😉 You still don’t get an image of your “lovely one” in your mind ? 90% must have got it. For the other 10% , you will also fall for this person in some point of your life 🙂 And you know what ? That would be the best feeling you will get !
Did They Already Left?
Wait , did they already go very far? If this is not the case , you are lucky ! But what if your answer is yes ? Ah , don’t worry dude , I am here for you and will tell you what to do next. But first a very interesting doubt , ” Why Do People Go?” Now I won’t make this longer as i have already spoken about this in my previous post. (PS: Go check it out if you haven’t for more ! ) And you can clearly skip this if you have not lost your favourite person 🙂 So , I would surely tell you what you can do next.
DON’T BE A DEVDAS : Get this as soon as possible. You might think that your world is falling apart and you cannot get back up. YOU CAN HANDLE THIS. Now , I know this is easy to say and hell lot difficult to implement. But eventually you will get this after a time they left. You are not dependent on someone else for your own happiness ! You shouldn’t be. If you are young enough then you have your whole life ahead. Don’t waste it by making them happy after they left ! You have many other things to focus on. Your career is the most important thing. Don’t destroy. I know you had given your best but what can you do ? Beg them to come back ? Naah.
IMPROVE YOURSELF: I do not mean like competelyy just change yourself . But i mean that if YOU find a fault in yourself which was even the minor cause of that person to leave , improve it. Get this , I DO NOT MEAN THAT YOU ARE WRONG. I just mean that if you yourself feel that you have some flaws , then go for curing them and be a better version of yourself 🙂 Don’t listen to what others comment. What does the person say does not matter. Just think your good and rock it out ! 🙂
START SMILING AND STOP CRYING: I ask , why are you crying ? Why on the same person who did not understand you and your love ? Well , if you think crying would make them get “feelings” for you , then let me tell you this will never happen. ( Harsh right? ) So stop crying and start smiling 🙂 Stop surviving and start living and remember , your tears have more value more than anyone 🙂
Woah , that’s a lot to take. But don’t worry , all this you are feeling and “suffering” would feel so stupid at a time when you are very ahead in life and successful. You would take a look back and feel so lunatic at that time. And one more point , VALUE THOSE THINGS WHICH YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW. I know you would not want to value but , it is a good way to forget what all happened and move on in the future 🙂
