Saludos a todos en esta gran comunidad, hoy recibí una invitación de 
Greetings to all in this great community, today I received an invitation from
¿Has logrado hacer amigos fácilmente, cómo lo lograste?
¿Has vivenciado alguna experiencia incómoda donde al principio el terreno no estaba dado para hacer amigos y luego hayas podido transformr y crear una amistad?
¿Tienes amigos de toda la vida? ¿Como has hecho para mantenerla en el tiempo?
Have you managed to make friends easily, how did you do it?
Have you had an uncomfortable experience where at first the terrain was not given to make friends and then you have been able to transform and create a friendship?
Do you have lifelong friends? How have you done to keep it in time?
En esta ocasión, siento que responder las preguntas de manera separada me quita un poco la inspiración, por eso solo les contaré de forma fluida como ha sido mi proceso con la amistad y por qué considera que mis amigos son tan importantes en mi vida 😊
On this occasion, I feel that answering the questions separately takes away my inspiration a bit, so I will just tell you in a fluid way how my process with friendship has been and why you consider that my friends are so important in my life 😊
I think that friendship has come into my life in different stages, but at first it was difficult, in my childhood I had few to almost no friends, I have vague memories of my first years of schooling and I think that this lack of memory is precisely because I did not I like to remember that I had almost no friends, to a large extent I felt different, however I had no enmity with anyone, that is, I was never popular but I was not conflictive either, I remember that I spent the entire primary school with only one girl and that at we separated when we went to high school that friendship ended, I think she was just hanging out with me because I hung out with her, that is, if I didn't look for her she wouldn't do it for me, I hadn't really thought about that matter Until then, but I don't see much importance at this point in life.
Mis padres siempre fueron muy protectores y yo no hice amistades con vecinos, tampoco hice actividades fuera de la escuela , cuando entré a secundaria hacer amigos era algo extraño para mi, pero mi personalidad se hizo mucho más fuerte, empecé a no tolerar las conductas que me parecían incorrectas de algunas personas solo por estar dentro de un grupo, así que conseguí compañeros que aunque eran diferentes a mi , me hacían sentir mejor, es así como de ser la menor del grupo y con un excelente promedio, decidí hacer grupo no con las niñas del cuadro de honor como yo, sino con los varones que repetian el séptimo grado y que algunos hasta me llevaban 5 años de diferencia, con ellos me sentí cómoda en las tareas escolares por mucho tiempo, no me jugaban por aspectos tontos como apariencia, posición social o asuntos triviales, ellos me necesitaban para ayudarles en las tarea y yo a ellos para sentirme cómoda fuera de ese mundo de preadolescentes que estaban pendientes de chismes, modas, amores y falsas apariencias.
My parents were always very protective and I did not make friends with neighbors, I did not do activities outside of school either, when I entered high school making friends was something strange for me, but my personality became much stronger, I began to not tolerate the behaviors that Some people seemed wrong to me just because they were in a group, so I found colleagues who, although they were different from me, made me feel better, it is like being the youngest in the group and with an excellent average, I decided to make a group not with the girls on the honor roll like me, but with the boys who repeated the seventh grade and some were even 5 years older than me, with them I felt comfortable doing schoolwork for a long time, they didn't play me for silly aspects like appearance , social position or trivial matters, they needed me to help them with homework and I them to feel comfortable outside that world of preteens who were aware of gossip, fashion, love es and false appearances.
In the second year I met other people and I was part of a group of friends that allowed me to survive the rest of the high school years with no regrets, after graduating we lost contact, but there is one of them with whom I maintain communication from time to time, I consider her a great friend although our personalities are very different in certain things, she has a good heart and that is what I like most about her, besides that she has a very funny way of being, she undoubtedly made my years of life happier high school and as an adult when I have the opportunity to communicate, he always makes me laugh with his jokes.
Sin embargo, el mundo me tenía preparado tener varios amigos importantes, estos los hice gracias a la pasión por la música y el arte, algunos los conocí por los conciertos de rock en la calle y a otros por estudias artes en la universidad conmigo, lamentablemente la vida de adulta es difícil y cada quien toma caminos diferentes, pero se que la amistad persiste aun cuando no haya comunicación, se que al volverlos a ver nos sentiríamos a gusto como si el tiempo no fuera pasado.
However, the world had prepared me to have several important friends, I made these thanks to my passion for music and art, some I met through rock concerts in the street and others through studying arts at the university with me, unfortunately the Adult life is difficult and everyone takes different paths, but I know that friendship persists even when there is no communication, I know that seeing them again we would feel comfortable as if time had not passed.
En mi aprendizaje para conseguir amigos de forma intencionada o no viví primero una etapa donde solo me conformaba con lo que había, es decir, no eran amistades reales, solo eran personas que estaban allí y con las cuales procuré tener una buena convivencia escolar, luego pasé a una etapa donde me desligué de esa conformidad y empecé a estar con personas que me permitieran ser yo misma sin sentirme un bicho raro, luego hice amigos por tener aspectos en común, pero cuando la madurez emocional llego me di cuenta que mis mejores amigos no tenían por que ser personas con mis mismos gustos , estos podían ser personas muy diferentes pero que siempre tuvieran mis mismos valores, es decir, las personas sencillas, que no les importa las apariencia ni los lujos, personas honestas y sinceras, personas trabajadoras y también personas con bondad en su corazón, estas personas que son capaces de ayudar a otros, este tipo de características son comunes en las personas que más aprecio, no me importa mucho si el contacto se pierde por razones ajenas, mientras mis amigos logren ser felices y desarrollarse plenamente yo estaré aquí para apoyarlos siempre que necesiten , deseándoles todo lo mejor.
In my learning to make friends intentionally or not, I first experienced a stage where I was only content with what was there, that is, they were not real friendships, they were just people who were there and with whom I tried to have a good school life, then I went to a stage where I detached myself from that conformity and began to be with people who allowed me to be myself without feeling like a freak, then I made friends because I had aspects in common, but when emotional maturity came I realized that my best friends They did not have to be people with my same tastes, these could be very different people but who always had the same values, that is, simple people, who do not care about appearance or luxuries, honest and sincere people, hard-working people and also people with kindness in their hearts, these people who are able to help others, these kinds of characteristics are common in the people I appreciate the most, I don't care It matters a lot if contact is lost for other reasons, as long as my friends manage to be happy and fully develop, I will be here to support them whenever they need, wishing them all the best.
Espero les haya gustado. Les invito a leer mis próximas publicaciones y siempre estaré dispuesta a responder sus preguntas y comentarios, también pueden seguirme y contactarme en cualquiera de mis redes sociales. ¡Muchas gracias!
I hope you liked it. I invite you to read my next publications and I will always be willing to answer your questions and comments, you can also follow me and contact me on any of my social networks. Thank you!