Humans are very complicated to understand and there is no way to fully understand a human fully. They are quite mysterious and they can hide many things on the surface. From the surface we see they are doing pretty well but, in their heart, they are struggling. We just think that they are living in their prime, but the situation can be the opposite for them. And we cannot understand it unless we consider everything from their position. It is our fault to judge others very quickly and that's the reason we cannot understand their situation.
In this digital world, people can maintain a fake profile because of social media. We think they are doing very well in their real life. Most of us think that money can solve all the problems, but in some cases, it cannot do it. If it was the reason, then people might not commit suicides who belonged from rich families. Unfortunately, many people suicide belong from celebrities or royal family. We can understand that they were struggling unless they already did something serious and it became too late. Have I seen anyone like that? I guess I witnessed such situation.
To be honest, it was the story of a person who used to be my classmate. He was one of my rivals for 2 years when it comes to the academic result. Before I came to the school, he was the top ranker number 1. He loved to act superior and he had a large circle of friends while in was nobody there. I just came there and adjusting with the environment. I tried to be friendly with him at the beginning because he was a top-ranker and it was very natural but for his arrogant nature I stopped thinking of being my friend. I don't like anyone who acts arrogant in front of me in such a case. After attending the first examination, I took first place and after that, he started to see me as his enemy. I didn't know if he was jealous or angry with me, but his actions always tried to look down on me.
I didn't know about his family background and neither did I care. Even I would not give any counterattack if he said something offensive. I just kept silent and maybe that's why we didn't end up in a fight. So, I thank my calm personality for it. Neither did I become friendly with him in the next two years. But one of his close friends became friendly with me later and I acknowledged his situation. His parents were teachers by profession and when it was about the study, they were serious about it, and they kept him under pressure all the time. here, he used to maintain top position. Even after that he was beaten by his parents many times because of not being excellent in some subjects. After my arrival he also lost his first position, and I never allowed him to take it back. It added extra pressure on him, and I heard that he was beaten by his parents also for losing the position.
His parents even stopped him going outside of home to play because of losing first position and they became stricter with him. From the outside it was hard to understand he was being tortured by his parents. I just felt pity for him. But I believe his actions with me have nothing to do with it because it was his choice. So, I never considered him a good person. In case of his parents, I think it's understandable and I have seen that kind of parent in several cases. I think those kinds of parents have psychological issues. After two years I changed school, and I didn't know what happened next. But as far as I could understand, it's natural for him to form depression, unless he tried to break out the situation by himself. Whatever I never expect him to get a good ending doesn't matter from the surface it seems like he is living in his prime.
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