Everybody wanna achive success in life . But somebody can achive it , somebody not.
Actually the meaning of success vary with person and time. As a student making a good result in exam is called success. In professional life earning a lot of money is called success. For a poor person able to secure their daily food is called success . Sometimes overcome the difficult situation is also called success. So success actually depends on mindset and situation. Generally being able to achieve that thing or that position which we want to reach is called success.
For that variation sometimes you may think that you are successful but you are not the successful one from others point of view. It's generally happened specially when the aim is not so big. So most of time we considered that one can be a successful when other people think that he is successful.
I was born in a middle class family . And every children of a middle class family have to struggle hard to lead their life. At the beginning my father was in abroad but because of his sickness he had to return in our country again. He tried several times to do a job in our country but he never find any with which we can lead our life somehow. He was not a educated person because of what he faced huge difficulties to find a job. In fact he never found a job for this. So we had to face difficulties too lead our normal life. After finding no ways my father became a farmer to bear the expenses of our family. In that time I was very little approximately i was 6/7 years old. So understanding the situation of family was not my concern that time.
From the beginning I was a good student and I used to make top rank most of time and It was my father's desire to make me educated. So most of time he supported me as much as he can. It's true that we are facing difficulties to lead our normal life that time but my father never hesitated to spend money for my education. In case of my education he was always conscious and extra careful instead of a uneducated person.
When I was reading in class 7 one of my school teacher suggested my father to send me in town for better facilities of education. I had denied that idea because i never thought to lead my day without my parents. My father tried to make me understand and he sent me in town forcefully. Many relatives of us and many neighbours said many word to my father like he was wasting his money by sent me in town. Many of them also said that my father become mad and trying to loss all of this money doing this.My father tried to avoid them. Instead of extra expenses of my education he managed it somehow.
After coming in town I also had faced many difficulties to adapt with new environment. Besides there some classmate of mine used to call me trash of village. They used to thought that they are much better than any village students. At the beginning I became very sad because of it. But with time I started to adapt with that environment and I became the number one in my class. Everyone was not bad in my class. There I made some good friends also. I think I gave them a best reply who used to call me trash.
I got scholarship in the time which also helped me a lot to continue my education. After several years I started to do tuition to bear my educational expenses and help my father a little bit . That time I was very serious about my study because I started to understand many thing . I knew that if I became a failure everyone will blame my father for his foolish decision. And I understood it that my father trying his best to make my future better . And I couldn't let him down. This was the main motivation of mine in a word my father was my motivation.
As a result I passed in government medical admission test. That time it was decided that I was going to be a doctor. When my father heard this news he was crying ,i was able to understand it from the other side of mobile. That time I felt very good thinking that finally i was able to do something for my father. I didn't let him down. After few years I become a doctor . I think it was the best reply to them who used to blame my father for his decision and I proved it that my father was right.
As a result in our village ,people started to say that I am a successful man. Many thing started to change with success of mine. Many people started to get friendly with me as well as my father also who used to blame my father for his decision. Whatever I am happy that everything is in very good condition and my father is also happy and it's enough for me.
I am just thinking that whatever I am now it's all because of my father. So it's not the only success of mine it's the success of my father also. We both are successful 馃檪.
I can still remember a line which my father used to say that time. The sentence is " I am a uneducated and foolish person. But it doesn't mean that my son will be like me. He will be better than me and he will shine in future".
In this article most of incident taken from real life approximately more than 85% . I tried to made it more interesting adding some thoughts of mine . Anyway i also thing that it's the actual success and sucess is the best revenge for the haters of us without making any conflict .
Anyway hope that you enjoyed the successful story of mine.